hey guys, met an amazing 19 year old at a foam party friday and we were all over eachother. she is so hot its amazing and we met at the bar when i pointed out a green rubber duck she had somehow acquired, we drinked, talked danced kissed etc and she was really into me. got cockblocked though as she had to leave with her pals but she asked if she could have my jacket and i gave her it. been texting quite a bit and was out again last night n she kept textin me to go to the club she was in, eventually i went even though my friends stayed where they were, last night worked out great too, she wanted to hold my hand all the time and kept sitting on my knee and kissing me, she invited me back to her friends but then the other girl basically told me in the taxi i couldnt come back. she is a bit of a player though i think cos she showed me her phone at one point and said i should feel priviledged and i asked why and she showed me her inbox of bout 25 unread messages from guys, and then said cos i text you back, then she kissed me, this bitch is inside my head now. weve been texting back and forward today and jus wana try and make a date away from the club scene. ideas guys or advice on some good text game. also, how do i deal with the cock blocking?

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When she tells you stuff like you are lucky that I am talking to you and other bullshit like that, you should not say anything like yes or nod or whatever. Instead tell her something like, babe you are the lucky one that I am still talking to as usually you are not my type or something. This might not be a good example, but you get the point.
Keep your text short and don't text for the sake of texting. If you want to close her, be sexual and funny. Understand that everything you text has an exact meaning to it. If she is late to text you back, take more time to text her back. Don't text straight away. Finally, don't be tooooo available! If she invites you to places and events or whatever don't be free every single time. What I like to do is 3 yes 1 no / 2 yes and 1 no. Good luck

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cheers mate. wee bit of oneitis on this one lol. maybe should go out wi another girl the night n take my mind off her...

she texts a lot and sends a lot of big long messages so dont wana be too short in my replies. havnt been textin bk rapid all the time although she does sometimes. so you dont think i should invite her out tonight? how long should i leave it before i ask her out? and where ya reckon? usually i take girls to play pool cos its informal and can be pretty fun.

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You should always have spare women on the side anyway. She is getting you hooked up now! She is giving you a lot of attention! However, after she knows you are caught, she will start decreasing that attention towards you day after day. You will end up suffering from oneitis. Typical situation, especially if you really like her . Ask your self something, do you really want to go out with a player? Are you okay with being in an open relationship? She seems pretty popular and the kind of girl that gets what she wants. Once she has you, you are game. Anyway, normally I don't like going on dates so I just invite them for drinks/dinner/movie at my place. This will enable you to escalate. I feel like if I go on dates I put myself in a weird situation for some reason.

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was in a relationship for a good while so was wierd dating to start with but if they are places in my comfort zone i dont get that wierd feeling anymore. this also means i take a lot of girls to the same places, same pool joint, rerstraunts and bars lol. yeah inviting her to mine seems a good way to go but dunno if she will, maybe invite her out for a drive, ive got a reasonable bmw and would be easy to take her to mine all things going well. i dunno if i wana be with her but if i dont fuck her i will be gutted!

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I think you're over thinking this one, she is already into you and loving you why look for help?

Nothing has to change, you are already on the right track and truthfully, whenever a girl tries to DHV herself by showing you text messages, just laugh at her.. She has no idea what she's in for

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your totally right i am over thinking this. the whole thing with her phone threw me though and i guess im jus so into her i wana make sure i dont fuck it up, its the ones i really like i manage to fuck up, the rest are easy! lol

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oneitis is a terrible thing. makes you believe that she was put on earth just for you...when the reality is its just your emotions fucking with you.

definitely start seeing or just talking to or thinking about other women. it'll put things in perspective.

texting continues folks and im taking her on the pool date tommoro night and then hopefully back to mine. iv took a few girls to this pool place now and its been good, have a bit of pool based banter up my sleeve so feeling good bout this one. wish me luck lads

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got her back to mine for a few hours last night but couldnt f-close. she jus didnt seem comfortable when we were makin out and when i tried to escalate i was blocked. decided not to text her but she has jus txt me sayin it was a struggle to get up this mornin and she is blaming me for that. whats my reply?

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where you from scottishguy? I 'm in scotland too..

fife mate, ive pmd ya

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huddle up team.....
just a wee update to say i fucked this girl last night and it was fuckin awesome. good work everyone!

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