Greetings guys - It's been a while since I've visited these forums, I've had quite a good run not a long while ago. Despite that, I'm starting to notice that I've again changed alot since I've stopped ''hunting''.

After a bit of thinking I actually came to the conclussion that I haven't truely developed myself, I'm not mature.

I think the most important part of succes in life is accepting who you are and finding the strength within you to keep going. I've felt that I keep having the need to change myself for other people. I'm not exactly sure what the reasoning is behind that.

I've always been the kind of person who's very motivational to speak with, I've inspired alot of people but i cant really help myself. I've got this one (girl)friend who has now become a model thanks to my words of advice, she lacked confidence and I managed to talk her through it. She recently joined a ''miss universe'' type of thing and she's qualified for the finals.

People have always said that my words are very strong, but I cant really use them for myself. Despite being a role model for people out there, I dont really have one for me.

I'd love to get my old energie back. A while ago it felt as if I could handle the world. I started planning things, doing things and live a very energetic life. I really miss my old me.

Anyone else that has experienced such a point in life, where it feels like time has stopped?

It seems like you understand what you need in order to be successful. The problem is your not always being yourself. Your true identity is not who you are but whom you really want to be. Read the book "Power of Now" it will explain more to you than I can explain over here. In order to be your real self you have to act like who you are. Don't be afraid of anything and just be yourself if people don't like it to bad for them.

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

So whats the problem? you need motivation?

And what do you mean you change for other people? What are some examples...

Your behaviors even when it is "not being yourself" or who you want to be are usually instinctual. Its all habits. I don't know what you're struggling with...put it all starts with finding direction. What direction do you want to head in....

I've written a fairly long blog article on developing confidence, willpower, instilling beliefs, and solidfying yourself with good habits: 1-vt137103.html?start=0