NEED HELP FROM EXPERIENCED PUA. DID I MESS UP?



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 40 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 2:15 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Tue Jul 19, 2011 2:23 am
Posts: 3
I was at a party last Saturday night and met this HB 8 while I was there. I gamed her for a bit and number closed and we ended up making out before the night was over. Here's our texting convo from last night, feel free to criticize points in the convo that I royally fucked up in.

Me: Hey! You Call? Sorry I didnt pick up, I was at work 6:29 PM

HB8: Nahhh dont worry about it! What are you doing tonight? 7:17 PM

Me: Im was gonna go party with my friend but my bed says otherwise, Im too tired! You got any plans? 7:25 PM

HB8: Yeah im real tired too haha but i am with (name) and (name) so we are just hanging out 8:03 PM

Me: Sounds fun! Oh and btw you know who this is right? 8:17 PM

HB 8: Im hoping its (my name)? 8:38 PM

me: Yes ma'am 8:45 PM

Hb 8: haha thought so! 9:32PM

Me:Well you thought right my friend, brownie points for you! So HB 8 i think im gonna reward you for knowing this was me haha 10:17 PM

HB8: Oh really? And how are you gonna do that? 11:02PM

Me:Hmm lets see.. I have some ideas but I wanna hear what you wanna say, I mean after all it is your gift right? 11:25 PM

HB 8: Humm haha well i might have to think about this... idk ahhh 11:44PM

Me: Oh dont worry about it... I know exactly what you want 11:54PM

HB8: Ahh i dont know about that?? 11:57 PM

Me: You Sure? You know I can read minds right? Its a secret talent haha 12:05AM

and thats where it ended. She didnt reply, so im hoping she fell asleep or something, which i doubt since she said she was with her friends. Yeah I know my texting game is horrid, but do you guys think I messed up my chances of setting up a day 2? Idk if she lost interest or she is playing hard to get, but i wanted outside opinion on what i should do next. I havent texted her today so it seems like im not overly investing my time into her and to come off as less desperate. If there is any hope left, what should i do to reopen the conversation with her and then quickly set up a date? I know if i can get her to meet up with me I can easily f close since my real life game is above average and I am an above average looking guy.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 2:20 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Sun Jun 10, 2012 7:07 pm
Posts: 9
Location: Costa Rica
Maybe she will maybe not.

You fucked up because you wouldn't shut up. Pointless bullshit conversation.

It's simple: You number close, you make next meetup. Nothing more. You don't ask her, you TELL her what days you a free, ask her how adventurous she is, and tell her to meet you somewhere.

This girl sounded like she was eating out of your hand until mid-convo. Attraction blown.

Stop trying so hard. Remember, you have tons of girls, why are you wasting your time texting this girl so much. She is one of many, and you are a super busy guy man. See?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 2:27 am 
Offline
The name of the mothefucking game
User avatar

Joined: Thu Apr 21, 2011 2:31 pm
Posts: 4210
Website: http://www.dancefloorseduction.com
Location: South Florida
that was pretty weak, just be normal... look in the lounge the post on text game is for pussies, and look only at the sexaddict911 responses... that is the right way to do text game...

_________________
Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a dancefloor/club environment, check out my blog and youtube channel:
http://www.dancefloorseduction.com

Dancefloor/Club game youtube channel:
http://www.youtube.com/dancefloorseduction


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 2:58 am 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Fri May 25, 2012 2:51 pm
Posts: 882
1.) Boring. Have you heard of a joke? Yours aren't funny.
2.) Your text are too long. It shows too much interest. Makes you look weak. Here is a rule. When texting try to keep your text the same length or shorter than hers. It makes you seem powerful. Samething with the responses, try to get your response times at the same length as hers. If she takes 15 minutes to get back to you. You take 15 minutes even 20 minutes to get back to her.
3.) Hinting at sex in a text? C'mon man... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1NwW3GCn7k
4.) Why ask her do you know who this is? telegraphing a lack of confidence and insecurity. (either tell her in the first text or assume she knows or ask her about the night before...shit)

I prefer not to text unless its really interesting or funny. I prefer the phone call because I can hear how the girl is feeling on the phone and can tailor what I say accordingly. Right now she thinks: He's boring, desperate and just wants to have sex.


Shit you could have invitied her over on the text when she said what you doing tonight. Hb: "what are you doing tonight?" Pua: "You baby. Come over at 9." Thats if you are feeling bold. Or you would just say "nothing much, kinda bored. maybe we can hang out. :p " or shit just tell her i want to make out with you some more, that shit was fun!

Right now you can hope that she feel asleep. You can call her or you can text her. The goal when you do that is to get back to a positive frame. Then you escalate. However, she may not answer or reply.


Last edited by IwantEasyLove on Tue Jun 12, 2012 4:23 am, edited 1 time in total.

Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 4:05 am 
Offline
The name of the mothefucking game
User avatar

Joined: Thu Apr 21, 2011 2:31 pm
Posts: 4210
Website: http://www.dancefloorseduction.com
Location: South Florida
This shit motivated me to write a post:

search.php?search_id=egosearch

_________________
Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a dancefloor/club environment, check out my blog and youtube channel:
http://www.dancefloorseduction.com

Dancefloor/Club game youtube channel:
http://www.youtube.com/dancefloorseduction


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 4:10 am 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Fri May 25, 2012 2:51 pm
Posts: 882
Pitch Black is one of the greatest movies of all time


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 3:47 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Fri May 25, 2012 2:51 pm
Posts: 882
You're doing great! You just have to less anxious moving forward. If you want her don't quit. Don't give up! Call her or try to meet with her. If she wanted you before she will want you again!


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 7 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link