I was recently grabbing some coffee with a 9, and she threw some shit tests at me I haven't seen before.

Shit Test 1 - When we were talking about music, I said "We probably have totally different tastes in music" and she replied "Yeah, I like good music "

Shit Test 2 - She looks over and says "I feel like I could beat you in an arm wrestle."

In both cases I just kindof laughed it off and said "Oh really?" but I feel like I could have done better. What would some better replies have been?

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Usually you can handle this two ways, with humor or with dominance. Humor always works. Dominance might um...get you told off.

1.) humor ... "What do you like?" "Lady Gaga, Taylor Swift" "your judgment...its its ...questionable"
domance..."and I like better music"

2.) humor...kino *grab her arm...caress her bicep* then say "o we oughta wrestle sometime and see"
dominance..."you're weak"

Hey bud, usually this is the kind of women that I like! In my opinion, this is not a shit test at all! It's just being cocky funny on her side.. Just laugh it off, and if you had a quick witty respond throw it at her. No need to be rude or give her a neg as that will change the mood of the situation, and there is no reason for it at the moment

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Yeah man, I think thats just playful banter - roll and have fun with it

I agree this aren't shit test imo.

1) This is just a very witty comment I must say. A bit of a neg actually. Give her some of her own medicine or shut up cross your arms and give her a playful wtf look (if you can give one ).

2) This sounds more like an invitation to physical contact then a shit test. There is a lot of option here. Witty reply's, kino; take her arm stroke her biceps and say something like I'm not so sure.

If your taken by surprise by such comments, kick back, smile playfully and you have a little bit of time to think about your response. Do not take to much time, ofcourse.

1. Arguable.

# 2. I bet I could outlast you in bed.

Is this that hard?

this is cool reply

ps: first one is just cool stuff said by chick, cocky funny on you. You can simply answer "oh you got jokes, huh" and smile

Second one might be a shittest only if you are very slim and/or look very weak. Otherwise its not shit test either.

I absolutely hate a bitch that does not understand the meaning of respect. All these damn women want to find a way to get a man. How about you start by respect me? How about you start by kissing my got damn ass? Bitches ain't shit, half of these women are as haughty as they are beauty. that's why you gotta be happy with yourself so you can check a bitch and not care whether she likes it or not.

Wtf?? That is so irrelevant! I think you are in the wrong place bud. Anger management club is next door.

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I'm not angry... You seem submissive.

Don't think about it man. Just stay truthful and say whatever come to your mind.

Thanks for all your replies, guys, I'll keep what you said in mind

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TheCaptain

those arent shit tests

thats banter.

just banter back.

The easiest way to do that is to be yourself. Dont try and win over everything she says every time

if you have sexual tension, you can have it 50/50. Just keep the convo going but remain the subcomms in kino

As many have said, this isnt a shit test. But I'd just like to add something else you can do.

I do it sometimes and it works/gets a good/continuingly interested response. If you truly can't think of anything to say, like me sometimes, you just say, "damn, that was a good one" and give her credit, accept defeat in a playful way. You can always then turn it around and say "You learn quickly," or some shit like that. As long as you keep it playful, and the vibe is playful, there is nothing wrong with that.