Ok so I have known her for 6 years we have a lot in common we are good friends do I want to date her know I sent her a face book message I told her that I had a dream about me and her and that in the dream we ended up kissing she I then said idk what to think of this but it was kinda a crazy feeling she said to me yea I wouldn't know how to handle that either then I said its not like a bad thing because we have a lot in common she said yea it's not a bad thing it would just be different conversation if it happend . My question is I want to try out dating her but idk if she would want the same thing so I was gonna ask her hey why don't we try out dating each other I think we would make a good couple what do you guys think how would you handle this apreciate the help

Really? You would risk 6 years of friendship? I don't understand. Even as a guy, I can't imagine dating a girl I've been good friends for so long. There's just no way I wouldn't feel weird kissing her and stuff. Also I'd really appreciate if you made your topic understandable. I had to read some sentences three times before I understood what you wanted to say.

Now what you're trying to ask her, is something that generally throws away ALL PUA principles. Just ALL of them. Especially since you initiated it with this weird dreaming thing.

You're asking about how would I handle this... I can only say what you won't like, but I wouldn't mess around with this girl. It's just not worth it. She's your good friend, there's never a guarantee that it will work, and then you will most likely just lose her as a friend too. There are thousands of girl with whom you could try, why this one? Just because you have a lot in common? But to be fair, even if I'm 90% sure about the answer, I'm still going to give you this question:

-How much sexuality is involved when you two communicate with each other?

If the answer to this question is little to none, then not only is it not worth it, you won't even have a chance after 6 years of simple friendship.

If your answer on the scale is in between "the noticable" and "a lot", then you MIGHT have a slim chance. Then if you REALLY want something(but please do yourself good and reconsider this...) all you need to do is escalate things.

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the solution is simple.

if your interested, let her know. Escalate the convo.

You dont need our opinion on this at all. You know her well enough already that you should be able to have an open conversation with her about it.