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PostPosted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 2:50 am 
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While mindlessly browsing Facebook I realized just how important social circles are!

I clicked on a friends profile, at the top were her friends, and one of them was a HB9 (judging by her profile picture) so I clicked her profile. Yet again, at the top was a HB8 in her friends. Withing roughly a minute, there were two HB's that I didn't know, but had a mutual friend who, if I knew better, I could get to introduce me.

Up until now I didn't really think it was necessary to expand my social circle. I now realize that, especially for someone like me, where there aren't as many places to easily go sarging, utilizing my social circle is key!

I'm going to do some research on this topic. If anyone has any tips on expanding social circles, I would love to hear them.

Also, any other tips on becoming closer with friends you don't know all that well, and other acquaintances would be appreciated

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 2:58 am 
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Keep in mind, social circles come with a lot of reputation and archetype bullshit. Expect some of them to want you if your a rich kid etc. and others to want you cause ur the "built" one of their group. If you don't offer much to the social table in ways of materialistic value, you're not going to get very far. And you can't go sarging anywhere? I doubt that. Every place, big and small, has places where you can eat the fish.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 3:04 am 
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As a seasoned sarger who sarged for more than 2 years using social networking sites, I would say Facebook is a total waste of time if it's taking more than 20% of your sarging effort.

Here are some reasons.
  • 1. Pictures can be Photoshopped. Beware of the uglies.

    2. Some girls just look good in pictures. You should see them in person first and then add them on your Facebook. Not the other way around if you want to save time and effort.

    3. Girls with hot pictures have a social networking sites diva mentality of abundance. Even the fat, ugly ones suddenly get high value and act like HB9s or HB10s or worst have a bad diva attitude that they would otherwise not have in real life when you see them in person.
There are plus sides too but you'll do much better with face-to-face interactions. :twisted:

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 3:42 am 
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Sorry, I didn't mean I'm going to use Facebook to expand my social circle and sarge on it constantly.
The thought of expanding my social circle came to me while on Facebook, that's all I was saying about that.
Honestly, I'm not even really a fan of Facebook.

I understand there l always be people who want to use you for something! Hell, even at my work I have to deal with people trying to get free shit on a day to day basis! I feel I'm decent at seeing that bullshit and avoiding those people.
My reasons for wanting to expand my social circle was to meet more HB's through mutual friends, more parties and other events, more social value by "knowing everyone!"

Does any of this seem logical at all?
WC


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 5:34 am 
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It does, but realistically all I'm saying is if your social circle is in a closed setting like school / work / etc, then it really draws from a lot of archetype BS. Parties, hangouts, all this nonsense sounds fun...but I personally cannot stand the social circle gaming bullshit.

I know it should technically be easier and I'll admit I had experience with getting laid from my social circle...but it felt so closed off...I felt like a redneck


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