So i know i just made this profile, and if you read my first post it says i never have hooked up with a girl before (because i had never been to parties in hs or anything), but this all changed last night. I was invited to a party at a friends new house for college, and there were a bunch of the most popular guys and hottest girls from my high school there (i graduated last year). Before i arrived, i knew i had a high chance of hooking up with a girl, so i cleared my mind,read up on some kino, bodylanguage, and negging, and looked fucking sharp.
. I just get there and from the moment i walk in i make sure people are looking at me. I was walking with a very confident swag, and i knew people took notice. If any girl would make eye contact, id give them my signature eye contact back, and it was enough to make them giggle in nervousness. as i began to get my buzz on and talk to some of my friends i haven't seen, when i notice this girl who liked me senior year surrounded by her friends all talking, obviously about me. I say hi to them and give the girl who likes (Hb7) me a big hug. we split up for the time being and just have fun at the party

It is important to know there are two different social groups of girls at this party. one has hb6-hb7, and the other one is hb9-hb10.

Note: i pretty much surrounded myself with girls this whole party, i tried to make it so no matter who saw me i was either standing in a group of girls, talking to girls, or walking with girls.

There is this one particular hb10 in the group of hotter girls that i am very fond of, and even though i am against a girlfriend right now, i would totally want her to be my girl, she is BAD guys!! smokin hot and super cool....anyway throughout the night i'm flirting with her hard, my hands are always brushing some part of her body in hopes to kino( need to get better at this), im negging the shit out of her whenever we are in a group of people talking. id make super strong eye contact and hold it, i would deny things she would say jokingly, push her out of the group with a playful touch, grab her hand and pretend to read her palms, id always take her hands and look at her rings and compliment them, then toss her hand lightly back and walk away a little bit, pretty much just letting her know i know she is hot, but i dont give a fuck. I remember she was sitting on a bench with her leg extended, and i wanted to sit down, so i picked her leg up and moved it, she made a remark like "you are so dominant". Id take her cigarette out of her hand and puff it consantly, all with compliance. i got a good feeling that she liked all of this stuff.The only parts that didnt really work (or maybe they did and i didnt know what to do) is when i did things with a strong sexual tone, early in the night i asked her if her shorts hurt...lol idk. she was wearing these really high waisted shorts that rode up her ass so hard. And she was like What?? and i was like im pretty sure you have a huggee wedgie, turn around let me see haha,i kinda softly grabbed her waist to turn her and she wouldn't do it. whatever i thought, and walked away. another time i was like how do you walk around like that, i hope you know guys are stabbing each other in the streets trying to get to you, do you know how hot you are?? she seemed intimidated, and didnt really know what to say. This is pretty much the extent of the Hb10 encounter. we talked more throughout the night about random shit, no number close or anything, but i will see her again. the most important thing is that i felt like i had the upperhand with her the whole time. she never dominated me.

This whole time i still knew i was going to hookup with the Hb7, and some of it took place after i did.

As the night progresses, i found myself outside on a picnic table talking to the Hb7's friends about love or some girl shit. I am extremely impressed with how well i came across to everyone at the party. I would hold this eye contact with every girl i saw really, and It made them nervous. They would even be like your crazy! but in a very sexy flirtatious way. In the moment KNEW i could hookup with any one of them i wanted to, no bull. Anyway, the group of girls keeps saying how the Hb7 really likes me and how i should just go over and make out with her. Conveniently the Hb7 walks out to where we are, and all her friends leave simultaneously, i couldn't help but laugh. i pretty much tell this girl how i feel-which is that i think she is pretty cute and cool.... BUT...and as soon as i say but we just start making out, one of my hands is down her pants, and the other is undoing her shirt, and this went on probably for 15 minutes. we sat there and talked for a long ass time about how i was not looking for a relationship, and she was. she kept asking why why why, and i just said that how i am. i explained it that i have dont see the reason to be exclusive when you are young. she said she only fucks boyfriends, not any old guy. i acted like i didnt care, because i didnt, and i told her i knew i could fuck her, but i didnt want to. which was the truth. she knew this too. she tried making me jealous a few times, and i didnt react at all, i let her know i could probably hookup with any of the girls from the Hb7 group. she knew i was serious. i didnt bother using any bullshit because i have no desire to hookup with this girl again, unless its a party setting. she gave me her number, i said i might call her.

It was funny though because i heard her talking to her friends about how dominant and in control i am , (not in a control freak way, just that i go out and get what i want) and they were all intrigued and interested.

I did use peacocking in the form of an interesting silver looking bracelet that was my grandfather. i constantly saw girls and guys alike look at it, some girls where like what is that and would touch it. id say hey hands off haha, it definatly works.

So far i think i left myself a reallllly good frame for the next party all these ladies are at again, but i want this HB10 so fucking bad guys. I feel like i can get her to if i work out the kinks in my game, tips please!!!!!

can nobody give me tips on this??

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I'm sensing an overinflated ego on this, but I'm seeing it comes from a place where you got positive responses. As for staring at girls until they look away (a newbie eye contact technique) I'd say this is just unnecessary and I don't understand the point of this. Why bother doing that unless you have confidence issues? I'm usually talking to the girl rather than trying to win some man-woman eye staring contest of a purported 'sexual' nature.

A lot of this seems like you were in your head a lot and you got lucked out by a HB7 that wanted you but you were overcocky about it and good luck getting with the HB 10 if HB7 blabs. You really need to get better at this shit. It'll take time...and hopefully you'll realize there's a difference between saying "I knew I could get any girl there no doubts" and actually...well...getting a girl there you want than keeping a high ego.

I really didn't mean to sound like a douche, just purely stating what i saw. there were times when i was alone in a room with hb7 friends and got a bunch of ioi's but walked away. for instance, this one girl was wearing these lace type pants, and i could completely see through them. I was like wait! turn around i can completely see your ass!!! she immidiatly came closer and turned around to stick her ass out.....another example was when i was about to go to sleep at the kids house, i picked a small matress in the corner, and some girl who i didnt see just laid down and snuggled with me ( i think it was a friend girlfriend). as far as the eye contact, they didnt look away-they looked closer.my intention wasnt to freak everyone out. I just shot them this glance that they could not refuse to look back at, and then i looked away like nothing was wrong leaving with a feeling of like, ok this guy has something that i want. my eye contact is probably the best part of my game lol.... and i obviously couldnt get with any girl because the hb10 never happened, i was refering to the horny as fuck hb7 group, as they are all single and sluttier than the hb10 group, THE ONLY EXCEPTION being the girl i hooked up with, everyone knows she is harder to get than her friends.

haha and yeah dude i really need to get better at this, thats why im hear. i want to learn. based on the interaction with the hb10, what did i do right, and what did i do wrong, after all that was my big question,thanks for the response though!

i forgot to mention that that there was a guy there who really liked the hb7 and had hooked up with her a while ago, always texts her, and shows alot of interest. i didnt know this until after i hooked up with her practically right in front of his face.

Right well whatever HB7's reason is, looks/whatever the hell it is about you, then she had it in for you. As for that guy texting her nonstop, and whatever the "extent of the hookup" is, i doubt it was through a place of confidence, man to woman, and just core fundamentals of game.

I recommend reading my pickup manifesto. I think your style is more suited to mine....but I feel you were weak with the HB10 and you know what, I don't blame you. We can spew bullshit for hours about how much "better you could have done it" but lets be real..its done.

i actually asked her why she was so into me. and she looked at me and was like i really dont even know its just something about you that im really fucking attracted to.... idk man whatever that means. the dude who texts her all the time gets way more pussy then me, and i dont know why. i totally trumped him and most of the guys socially at this party.i can tell unlike alot of other dudes at the party, i was saying what i wanted to say to girls unlike trying to suck up to them to make them like you.
and you are absolutely right. its plain to see that whatever i did with the hb10 didnt work because i couldnt get past a certain point in the entire interaction, which was her seeing me in a sexual frame.... my whole point is how i should go about it next time....? any ideas? i think it was that i kept trying to talk to her. a big problem i realize now that i have is when a girl starts to walk away i feel like i need to accelerate whatever i am doing to pull her back in. this obviously does NOT work. and yes i read your manifesto. i totally agree with the core principels.

im pretty sure i just showed to much interest in the hb10...would that ruin everything for next time?

Alright cool. Well...

Yea you have to realize some girls may just not be able to handle it. I've been with many models, girls at Ambercrombie as live models at The Grove, etc...your style will work with girls of the universe rather than the 'hot girl next door' or the girl with a lot of fucking baggage under her belt. Not to say she won't get fucked by some other guy, but it doesn't mean he's any better than you.

As for the guy who gets more pussy, it doesn't mean you're better than him, but you are playing social circle game. This game is very retarded, based on archetype, perceived social reputation, social "proofing" (are u the one whos the highlight of your group), etc.

i like the term social circle game. never thought of it like that. The thing is all of these kids usually party together, and i was brought by a few friends from in that social circle who are seen as some of the cooler guys. So the way i see it, i entered this social circle, outgoing as shit, not giving a fuck, and doing whatever i want and saying what i feel. cant be too bad for next time.

but....back to my original question....what could i do to attempt a hookup with this hb10 later? like what i did, did not work. i mostly tried to dhv then get into a sexual frame. didnt work.

It won't happen, move on