She will have a birthday party for this weekend (20 years old). She invited me for three weeks ago and I told her that I will come.

The problem is that she was into me and we have sleept 5 times but the interest level has droped like a rock now. She flaked when I called her out last week with a lame excuse and didnt respond to my text this week. We dont talk over phone anymore. Have not been needy so there is probably another guy in the game.

I will look like a chump if I come because of all this shit (her bad behaviour). I think I will send her a happy birthday text and that I will not join the party? Can someone give me a good excuse to text? I want to have the doors open.

If you guys think that I should go to the party you can give me good reasons for that to. Cant hit on other girls there because I have oneitis and her mom will be there.

Thanks

Go to the party. Have fun. Be kind with the girl, but be social with everyone, and if you get a few number closes even better.
That will show her you are alpha, outgoing, social, positive, and not needy.
Works wonders, believe me. My GF loves how I can talk and make friends with complete strangers in every situation. It's alpha.

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100% go to the party. Just don't worry about her. Hit on other girls blatantly, but only if you're sure it will be received well. Jealousy is a powerful tool, even if she isn't attracted to you, she'll feel it on some level because you've chosen another girl and not her.

go to the party, if shes seeing someone, wait till that guy walks away, tell her
-do u see yourself marryin this guy"
-??
-Girls kno in seconds whether they wanna fuck marry or kill a guy
-...
-Which begs the question, how am I doin? (then pinch her ass and walk away)

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