K so I'll explain my story and situation and my questions come at the end of this post:

A group of students from another university came to take some courses for only 1 month.

When I first met them I noticed they all spoke spanish. Since I speak spanish and find it A LOT easier to be the center of attention with spanish-speaking people I felt I had and edge.

So when I met them, I felt I had made a very good impression, I was charismatic, engagin everyone in the conversation, but wasn't paying much attention to this one girl I was interested in. In reply, she was the one who asked me my name.

Although I didn't nag her, she seemed so interested in me. It's one of those times YOU KNOW. I invited them to join me and my friends to the university bar the next night.

At the bar, I was pretty much playing hard ball. So it was one of those times when a group of people who all know each other form a circle and dance. I would dance with her and pull her to the middle of the circle (show off some of my dance moves with her in front of everyone), talk briefly to her, joke a round a little. Unfortunately there was this other guy (another person they had met from one of their classes -->non spanish speaking) hitting on her and as she was talking to him, I would just leave her with the rest of her group and go to another group of friends with a different cute girl and dance with her. I would go back and forth between my two groups of friends during the night. I would also dance with others within her group of friends, having a good time with everyone. I just didn't want to be hanging around beside her so she could just have me whenever she wanted me.

Even though she was talking to this one guy, she would now and then glance at me. (or so that is my interpretation)

At the end of the night, the other guy was just stuck to her (talking and dancing i guess) and I acted as if I didn't really mind.

Just before I left I told her we should do something (her and the rest of her friends) tomorrow at this fun latin club, which would be the perfect setting for me. The guy beside her invites himself as well and I tell him "sure man" in a 'i dont care' way. She gave me her name and I added her to facebook (several of her group of friends added me as well).

So my question is, from what you read, what did I do wrong and what can I improve on for next time?

Also, what can/should I do next to keep her interested and intrigued in me? What should I do about my potential competition?

Finally, (I know this may be a crazy-dumb question but I'll just give it a shot) What would be a good strategy to get her to come to my place for the night (something slick)?


If there is anything anyone wants me to clear up, I would be more than happy to.

Hey

You played solid game but at some point you need to make your move. You Dhv'ed ALOT but thats not the only thing you need to do to get the girl you want. You should have gone out of the club to talk with her to "get some air" or taking a smoke. Here you should invited her to a place to eat, so it would be an Instant date. Just say "im hungy, lets go on an adventure". Here you would not have to worry about the other guy. At this instant date you could do some routines and kiss her, so you would't be labled in friend zone. When on this instant date, you could build alot of comfort.

You should never ask youselv what you can do to keep her intrested and intrigued in you. This shows that your actions are in a way to make her like you and it lowers your value.

so my answer to all your questions would be that you have done a good job in the club but it is time to isolate, so get her on an instant date and from there you could get her to your place.

Hope it helps

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hahajjjjj thanks for the tip man, I appreciate it!

Keep in mind if you say "lets hang out" you risk it being an instant hangout than an INSTANT DATE. For it to be an instant date, you both need to have romantic intent. Romantic thought is not ONE-WAY.

I see what your saying CJH, ill take that into account, thanks for the tip!

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K so following up to the initial story:
Her and the rest of the group didn't end up going to the latin club that night (they actually didnt go out at all), but what the hell, I did and had my good time there!

Still, I want something to happen with this chick before she leaves and I have 1 month to do this.

The thing is, I need to know how to approach her. I know I havent fucked thing up yet and I haven't really made any moves since last week.

She has no cellphone cause it doesn't work here (shes from another country) so the only thing I can rely on is Facebook or stalking her and stalking her is not really my style of doing things.

I just want her as a possible fuckbuddy and give her the time of her life

So my question is, how do I approach a girl through facebook without it being socially awkward/sketchy/needy and instead displaying and keeping my high value?

Also is there anything to follow-up with after facebook?

Note: Thing is I don't usually approach women through FB, I usually prefer person to person or textmessaging to follow-up (which is different to FB in the sense that some people dont look at their FB as often as others, on the other hand people normally always have their phones -->the conversation in relatively more fluid through phone-texting)