I'm a 24 year old guy that has lots of experience with women. In my lifetime, I've slept with several women and have had 2 long term relationships. I consider myself good looking, in shape and I can even speak French! So you'd wonder why a guy with all my experience would have a problem with women..

But my weakness lies in meeting new people and talking to strangers. I have no problem talking to female friends or co-workers and as a matter of fact I slept with a cute girl I work with a few weeks ago. But for the love of Jesus I have the worst approach anxiety when meeting strangers!! I wanna get this part of my life under control.

Last night I decided to go out solo to a street of bars.. I awkwardly bar hopped without approaching anyone. I was walking on the street to one last bar than suddenly an attractive woman came up to me and started a conversation. I couldn't believe it so much that I became nervous. I could tell she was giving me IOI's but after a few exchanges of words I began to stumble with what I was saying and eventually ejected. I felt like the biggest chump after I bailed without at least getting her name or number. Its so hard for me to go out on my own and meet new people. I'm hoping to eventually find a wingman to push me. Do you guys have any advice or tips on this?

You seem to have a fear of rejection from approaching women. Why don't you try the newbie mission.
the-newbie-mission-vt41556.html
You don't have to be a beginner to do it. It surely does help to build your confidence when approaching women. Good luck

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AA whats that ?

A lot of the newer guys have this issue man.

Email me dude, We can work something out

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i'm working my way through every shop i can find and approaching sales assistants and just practise random conversations with them for starters to get my confidence back. there's a reason they get paid to stand there and look pretty...

Do you guys have any tips on going out solo? It feels really awkward going to a bar alone.