Hi!

So, a year ago, I dated this girl that for some reason hadn't been dating anyone for 2 years. Se has some kind of problem with relationships. I believe something has happened with a past boyfriend or something. But, I managed to be the first in two years to date her. We dated for about 3 months, no sex though, she said this early on so it was okay, she had some personal issues. After 3 months, she tells me she can't have a relationship, because she has to deal with these issues first.

Now, she has moved back, and I'm still as much in love as I was back then, and frankly, I think she is too. The problem is, she is afraid of letting me in, because I thinks she knows she will fall in love again. So she is holding me on a distance, and every time i flirt or tease her, she takes it the wrong way (I do this naturally with everey girl), and sort of seems scared I am hitting on her... (which I am).

So, how can I do this without her knowing that I am? Because then she gets scared and pulls away. And how can I get her to feel and want the things we had before??


thx

it has to be mutual man, there is no way to sneak your cock up in there, she is going to know about it no matter what you do, at some point those pants have to come off, she is either interested in that, or not interested in that, if not interested in that is the conclusion you have come to, then you would be using your time more wisely if you were to move on from her and not get needy for something that you will not be able to obtain, however you should put forth a real effort before moving on and if you really value someone as a person it is worth it to keep them in your life