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PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 6:28 pm 
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Hi guys,
I just came from Vegas. First I met this hb 8.5 at a bar. talked for like half an hour and went to another bar with her. I kino her lightly but couldn't escalate kino to go for the kiss.
So at the end I tried to get her to my bedroom But I was not successful.She told me she enjoyed talking with me but she told she doesn't have any other intention.
Well the whole time we were together was like 2 hours. I don't know If I could do better with her.
Again yesterday morning I met this gorgeous hb 9 at the pool. We talked for an hour, I kino her and we had good time. Since it was my last day in vegas, I went for her number to be in touch and she told me she doesn't know me yet but she enjoys talking with me.
In both cases I got the same response at the end and I think I got stuck in the comfort zone and I couldn't transit to the seduce stage. The thing is that there was no way I could meet them again so I might have gone fast.
Could guys let me know what was wrong with my game and what would you do when you don't have enough time to spent with hb especially when you are on vacation.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 8:09 pm 
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Hi guys,
I just came from Vegas. First I met this hb 8.5 at a bar. talked for like half an hour and went to another bar with her. I kino her lightly but couldn't escalate kino to go for the kiss.
So at the end I tried to get her to my bedroom But I was not successful.She told me she enjoyed talking with me but she told she doesn't have any other intention.
Well the whole time we were together was like 2 hours. I don't know If I could do better with her.
Again yesterday morning I met this gorgeous hb 9 at the pool. We talked for an hour, I kino her and we had good time. Since it was my last day in vegas, I went for her number to be in touch and she told me she doesn't know me yet but she enjoys talking with me.
In both cases I got the same response at the end and I think I got stuck in the comfort zone and I couldn't transit to the seduce stage. The thing is that there was no way I could meet them again so I might have gone fast.
Could guys let me know what was wrong with my game and what would you do when you don't have enough time to spent with hb especially when you are on vacation.
not every girl will fuck on the same night. They probably liked your attention and got a few drinks for free.
if you feel it's going nowhere next them before you waste time and even money.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 11:09 pm 
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Hi Marque,

I think um...yea that sucks. Look 6.4 billion Hot babe 9's out there, move on. I think the problem with newbies is they get too infatuated with certain types of closes. I look at myself as a citizen of the world in reality. Sure I may not be in Brussels, or France, but fuck me if I'm going to let a few HB 9's or 10's ruin it for all the other gorgeous girls looking to get laid.

Sincerely,

CJH


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 11:19 pm 
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Hi guys,
I just came from Vegas. First I met this hb 8.5 at a bar. talked for like half an hour and went to another bar with her. I kino her lightly but couldn't escalate kino to go for the kiss.
So at the end I tried to get her to my bedroom But I was not successful.She told me she enjoyed talking with me but she told she doesn't have any other intention.
Well the whole time we were together was like 2 hours. I don't know If I could do better with her.
Again yesterday morning I met this gorgeous hb 9 at the pool. We talked for an hour, I kino her and we had good time. Since it was my last day in vegas, I went for her number to be in touch and she told me she doesn't know me yet but she enjoys talking with me.
In both cases I got the same response at the end and I think I got stuck in the comfort zone and I couldn't transit to the seduce stage. The thing is that there was no way I could meet them again so I might have gone fast.
Could guys let me know what was wrong with my game and what would you do when you don't have enough time to spent with hb especially when you are on vacation.
I am by no means an expert or anything. But my guess is that you spent too long with them initially. With the first one, you spend half an hour chatting her up and then follow her to another bar and spend two hours with her. Then on the second one, you spent an hour chatting with her. Spending 30-60 minutes on an introduction is too long IMO. Hell first dates should only be 1-2 hours. You could have made your introduction, chatted her up just long enough to get her number, and then you let her know you have to run but your night is open. Then with confidence tell her to expect a text a few hours prior with the details.


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 12:28 am 
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Hi Marque,

I think um...yea that sucks. Look 6.4 billion Hot babe 9's out there, move on. I think the problem with newbies is they get too infatuated with certain types of closes. I look at myself as a citizen of the world in reality. Sure I may not be in Brussels, or France, but fuck me if I'm going to let a few HB 9's or 10's ruin it for all the other gorgeous girls looking to get laid.

Sincerely,

CJH
Thanks for the help.
This is keep happening for me now and I don't think moving on help me now.For sure there is a problem with my game.
Today after writing this thread , While I wanted to get on the flight.This HB 9.5 stands next to me and tried to get my attention. She was fucking sexy.
on the flight I sat next to her. As soon as I opened her she asked me a lot of questions and showed IOIs. She was working for a like famous night club with some title I had no idea what it was in Vegas. However, this time I was not really in the mood and I was kind of intimated by her look.
I think I have problem seducing hbs and I got stuck in the comfort stage at best.
I am kind of confused .Since I know there is a porblem with my game and need to figure it out and solve it.


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from now on, screen faster if you are looking for sex

there are certain things that are pretty damn useful to know

-is she open and receptive to talking with you, and does she seem somewhat fun to hang out with (this is a no brainer and one of the first things you screen for *if you even realize it or not*, you want to find out what kind of girl she is)

-will she let you touch her in a meaningful way (touching within the frame of the two of you being romantically involved, the easiest way to test this is either going for holding her hand, or putting your arm around her shoulder, those two are probably the lowest levels of compliance that actually telegraph interest, figure this shit out quick, if she is not ok with something that ''safe'' then don't count on sleeping with her any time soon)

-will she isolate (if she won't leave with you to be alone somewhere in a bar, you can bet she sure won't leave with you to be alone at your house either, keep moving her to do fun things when you have to opportunity she will get used to the idea of saying yes and associate good things with moving for you)

-logistics, you want to know about her situation, who she came with, if she has work the next day, what she is doing after the bar, if she lives close by, you want to figure the logistics out in a tactful way, not just interviewing her like you are trying to find the best way to stalk her, but rather getting one or two pieces of logistics at a time and making it seem like it is just part of the flow of the conversation (the more friends with her, the more social pressure, if she seems super busy etc. after the bar or has work the next mourning these can don't mean too much, but it is still easy for a girl to just lie and say no if she is interested and with this knowledge you can be considerate of her situation and try to handle some objections before they even arise, the more about the logistics you know, the easier it will be to handle them when you are trying to go for it)


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 12:36 am 
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not every girl will fuck on the same night. They probably liked your attention and got a few drinks for free.
if you feel it's going nowhere next them before you waste time and even money.
About time you are right.
About drink:
I didn't buy drink for any of them. I think I fucked up the first girl because of that.
When I brought her to the second bar She ordered drink but I just got water and she paid for herself. I think she didn't feel good.Honestly , I have problem with drinking since I get drunk easily and my game gets worse.
However, I think I should have bought her more drinks and paid for her.I might have gone somewhere because of that.
What do you guys think?


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 11:23 am 
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not every girl will fuck on the same night. They probably liked your attention and got a few drinks for free.
if you feel it's going nowhere next them before you waste time and even money.
About time you are right.
About drink:
I didn't buy drink for any of them. I think I fucked up the first girl because of that.
When I brought her to the second bar She ordered drink but I just got water and she paid for herself. I think she didn't feel good.Honestly , I have problem with drinking since I get drunk easily and my game gets worse.
However, I think I should have bought her more drinks and paid for her.I might have gone somewhere because of that.
What do you guys think?
No man.

I never ever paid ONE SINGLE drink for a girl. Never pay them drinks, unless you are 100% sure you are going to bang that chick and you feel like doing a gesture. But paying drinks to get them convinced of having sex with you is so wrong.


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