hi guys,

thanks to you guys my profile on POF is now getting more views!! now i was wondering what you would send as your first message? so far i am sending "have you heard what happened today?" "hello, are you friendly? x" or just "hi x" most of them have all viewed my profile after my first message and today i recieved my first reply.

my initial message read "hi, are you friendly?" x and she wrote back "no i bite." she has viewed my profile and i would like to know if its worth messaging her
back? i have at least got her attention enough to receive a reply. what would you send in a reply message?

Don't take any advice from me pal. unless you want a crash course in how to kill attraction. for what its worth, that's a good response you got there. plenty to play with. its a fun, exciting response. she wants to play with you baby. play back.

well its worked so far!!

how about replying with "well i assure you i dont bite, so dont bite me."

NO, no, no, no, no , no, NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

thats all im gonna say.

well if thats a big NOOO then whats the alternative??

hmm. i don't think i'm qualified to answer that question big guy. i'm as clueless as you are when it comes to creating attraction...

maybe imagine it was your little sister who said it. what would you say to her?

Fuck it. My advice is you should reply how you want to.

Everything that happens on the outside depends on what you see on the inside. It's all about inner game. My inner game is shot to pieces. That is what i am going to focus on. Everything else is just filler for now. So go ahead. write what you want. I failed so many times today. And i'm gonna keep on failing and failing until something goes click. Just like i did when i was a kid and i tried to solve my brother's combination lock on his briefcase. eventually something went click and i found my holy grail. tons and tons of porn...in hindsight probably damaged me in some way but it felt good at the time.

Maybe she is testing you to see if you are starved for sex. Write back with what you want.

But if it was me, I would tell her "Slow down there sweetheart. We just met and I am definitely not that easy. I only allow a woman to have biting privileges after she proves she is worthy. So tell me, what are three things about you a guy would like, and if you put looks on the list, don't expect a reply back.."

You are flirting with her and showing you have a sense of humor, while making herself qualify herself to you. It puts you in the driver's seat.

Whatever you say back, don't think about it too much. It's a dating site, she already knows you're interested. Just be playful and flirty. Worst thing that could happen is that she doesn't message back and you move on to someone else.

thanks guys!! i replied with this

Slow down sweetheart. I only allow a woman to have biting privileges after she proves she is worthy. So tell me, what are three things about you a guy would like...

btw this is me http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22180474

and i shes tall, blonde, blue eyed and would rate her a definate 9.

i would be interested how you define a 9. can you post a link of her profile? promise i wont hit on her.

i am not bothered if you do hit on "her." it turns out it was a fake profile which has now been deleted. i really hate it when people are so pathetic. i feel like trashing her (or his) windows!

In the future, reply with something along the lines of:

Careful, I'm a squirter!

If you bite me, I will sooo pull your ponytail!!! hahaha...

Hey! I'm a lover not a fighter, but I'm a fighter too, so don't try me! LOL


Peace...

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