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Just a Word of Caution
I felt it very necessary to make this post. I usually do not take extra time to make such detailed post anymore, but I believe this to be an important post. Over the years I have seen various incarnations of posters, from the atypical “oneitis”, to the I need to have sex with tons of women because I think its cool, to the crazed “I need to learn to seduce women for power”. There is one commonality among all of these posters; if one looks carefully they all come across as extremely disingenuous. This post isn’t a motivational post, but a warning and a word of caution to those entering into this lifestyle as I once did several years ago.
You see, I was one of those “crazed” individuals who entered into game for power. I believed that by learning to seduce women that I would be as seductive (though in a non-sexual way) to my male peers. I once believed it to be one of the pinnacles of existence, but after years of heartache and just plain growing up; I learned that I needed none of the above. I learned that if I wanted power that I needed to go get power. I learned over time that the skill was something that I’ve had all along, and I did not need the support of a woman to accomplish my dreams.
It was once my young naïve mind accepted this that I no longer needed the comforts of women to obtain power or success, and that the vast majority of my desire to seek women came from validating my ego and needing to feel approved. I now spend most of my days trying to ignore women and avoid them, not because I hate them or view them as bad, but because I know that I could potentially get distracted from my true life's purpose. Though it is my innate proclivity to be curious about them, and even more curious about their bodies. Yet I grow wiser and understand that I no longer need them or their approval to achieve what I have always dreamed of accomplishing.
I say this to say, that I was be true to the purpose that you have built for your self in life. If it is to find love and a girlfriend, then find love and a girlfriend. Don’t substitute attempting to have sex with lots of women as the same, it is not. If it is finding power, then go find power, women do not equal power, but they do equal the opportunity to find love and support. If it is to have lots of sex, ask yourself, am I simply a horny bastard, or am I just doing this for approval? If it is the later then stop, slow down, and take a stroll through life. Sex is no so serious that you need to bust your chops over this at this point in your life. There is all the time in the world if you are under 30.
I also want to add, if you are genuinely interested in seduction and or finding someone to love as a part of your natural life fulfillment, then always use your strengths and do not over concern yourself with your weaknesses. Too many times men concern themselves with what they cannot do, and as a result they often belittle themselves and what they are actually capable of. Do not waste your time on negativity or what you cannot do for your self, but with what you can do for yourself. Focus on what you are good at and what you can accomplish, and you will surely set out to accomplish all those things that you have ever dreamed of accomplishing.
I have no regrets about the course my life has taken. I know that there is a reason behind this chaos, and I accept it. I no longer resist what is meant for me. I understand now that the lack of women and subsequently the chaos they may bring is of advantage to me. I’m in work and in school right now and understand that this is my opportunity to get ahead in life and do everything that I have dreamed of accomplishing.
Sincerely,
Taos
a very valuable insightful post.many guys enter pick up for all the wrong reasons which is why they will never end up happy.success with women starts with yourself
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