Today I walked into several stores and the retail assistants are usually HB8's usually with attitude. They ask "Do you need help?" "Can I help you?" "Are you looking for something?"

Whats a quick, witty response to that can help result in getting her phone number (and create humor without being overboard).

Also as a side note I got huge AA today and am quite ashamed to say I still haven't completed my first day time approach even though I went to the mall for a good 2 hours. This was quite depressing.

Another question, if a girl has completely bizarre hair what kind of comment would you make? I saw 2 HBs today 1 had Bright pink hair the other had dark red hair (sort of like Rihanna) and I wanted to open with a comment directly on their hair. Is that appropriate/good? What would you say?

Thanks men.

Hey

I can't thing of annything really good to respond to the "can I help you" line and it would be hard without it sounding weird. The thing is that it's a perfect opertunety to get a female opinion on something you were thinking. You could f.eks. say what do you would look cool on me. From there you could joke around with her. This is perfect for a warmup for a day sarge at a mall.

The good news is that you went to a mall and stayed there for 2 hours trying to open woman. It is much harder than it sounds. There are on the other side MANNY ways of getting past this fear. First, when you are sarging, ask yourself what you would do if you were to die in 4 houers. Would you be affraid of aproching random woman? Another thing: have a notepad and look at all the females you want to aproch. Tell yourself you are going to aproch this woman. Your mind will go in deffencive mode and make excusses not to aproach. write on this note your first thought for not to aproch her. do this 20 times, and the respons can't be the same. - you don't even have to aproach them! When you are done with writing 20 excusses not to talk to the woman you would like, answer each of them with a reason why you can't know that and a positive things.

f.eks.
she is probably a bich
im not a mindreader
for all i know, she is addicted to sex and will fuck me within 15 minutes

another thing to do is warm up by aproching people you dont care about the outcome. An example are the people working at stores, cuz they are paid to be nice to you.

for the girls with weird hair, tell them "Let me ask you a question, ive never seen hair like that, why? "
Its risky making a remark about it because it could activate a bich shield.

hope it helps.

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Hey man thanks a lot for the encouragement and advice. Helped out a lot. I am going to take your approach and try it out within the next few days and hopefully if I dont get overcome with anxiety I can come back to this forum with a new topic titled "My First Daygame approach".

Thank you