Hey guys.

So for the past 8 months or so I've been gaining knowledge from various sources and generally improving myself as person in preparation for when I 'came of age', and was able to go into clubs etc... I had minor success, I manage to at least make-out with 1 girl every time I go out and they are 7 and above at least, as the banter from my friends both male and female would be relentless if it was anything less . But that stuff is easy if you just keep at it for a couple of hours I think.
However, I have ran into some problems when I go out, which I need to solve if I want to improve my success rate, and get further with women regularly that I meet in the clubs.
Okay so the first problem is that I am quite a diminutive character, I stand at 5'8 and although I'm not weedy I am not beefcake either, and I think this has a negative effect on my ability to 'pull'. Secondly, and this is kinda linked into the previous point and that is that I only look like a 16/17 year old, and although this problem will hopefully go away in time, I am asking for any advice on overcoming these problems... For example last friday I was out with some friends and I move into this group of around 5 girls and start dancing and getting along just fine, but then one of them who was probably a 9 (I was intoxicated so may have been lower) points at me and says something long the lines of 'You're super cute' and not in the good way, in the care bear baby kinda way. So to that I just replied 'Thanks, you're not too bad yourself' and then returned to my friends totally emasculated. I even wear shirts in an attempt to look more mature and I only go out on predominantly student nights as there is no way I can compete with the 20 something males out there, and this is a recurring problem I come across every time I go out.

Thanks in advance.
Jacob

I am the same kind of build. All I will say is your game does not belong in a club setting with your stature. You must work alone or with a group of friends that are your height.

I admit that being short for a male is a defiant DLV. But I think that I'd be missing my best opportunity to meet women if I don't go to clubs... I'm not sure if I have said this already but I now only go out on student nights for two reasons. Firstly I have to be realistic in the fact that I am not going to pull some 26 year old for obvious reasons, and secondly the competition is not as tough on student nights as there are less 20+ males to compete with.
If I am honest I think that I exude enough confidence plus I don't really acknowledge my height for it to be too much of an issue. I select targets who I know are not taller than me without there heels on and no more than a couple of inches taller with them on... You cannot change the cards dealt just the way you play the hand, and if I let something that I will never change in my life prevent me from meeting women I believe would be the worst thing I could do.
Granted the club scene doesn't play into my hands but I've only just turned 18 and it's all I have got until I go to Uni later this year.
Thanks for the comment though and just remember that Neil Strauss was only around 5'6 apparently and he didn't do too bad