I think I'm going to start calling my style of game BiPolar... Because I will be freaking hotttt for like 2 weeks.. Ill get girls in rotation, I will be number closing and getting second dates left and right...

Then it stops... Slowly I will stop getting texts back, and eventually I'm back to being alone..

Any tips on stabilizing game??

What are you doing on the dates?

Ok, The first date came to my house..
We watched a movie.. We ended up making out.. I escalated too much. She didn't want to have sex, and I respected that So that was that.. We made plans to hang again and it never happened..
(probably because i escalated to much)

Second one was the same thing except i never done anything sexual with her.. other then make out..
She told me i better hang out with her again... then never texted me back..
She said that she just got out of a bad relationship and wasn't ready for anything

third one we went to a bar, drank had a good time. made out... I slowly escalated.. It got to grinding and i could feel her hesitate so i slowed down..
Now she flakes...

In all three instances, you failed the T-test.

In the first 2 where you have had make outs, the level of testosterone that you have transferred through her saliva was not enough. Note that I said level, not volume. There is no way that you'll dump more saliva in her mouth and increase your testosterone levels. If you want the scientific explanation for this, go to the PUA Lounge and find my How to Make a Woman Fall in Love with You and Other Facts. I've place a link there to the science behind kissing and testosterone.

You can increase your testosterone at the most efficient way through high intensity interval training on cardio and strength. Combined. Make sure that you have no serious medical condition when you do this.

You can also increase your testosterone levels by choosing the right kind of movies, tv shows and music that you get exposed to. Violent movies, action packed tv shows and heart thumping, loud music will help your testosterone levels go high.

Martial arts or any form of activity where you'll engage in competition and aggression is also good for your testosterone levels.

In the third instance, you just didn't escalate enough. Unconsciously, the girl's genetic make up said to her that your testosterone level is not enough-- even without the salivary transfer of your testosterone to her mouth.

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