So I have been seeing this girl for a couple weeks, we were well on our way to becoming a couple. She would text me every morning, randomly throughout the day, and call or text me good night every night since we started talking. We had sex several times, last week she came over Tuesday and spent the night Wednesday, both nights we had sex. Saturday she had texted me that her vag was sore and she thought she had a UTI. Sunday it was worse so she went to the doc and they said there was nothing wrong with her. After her doctor visit though, she turned into a ghost. She almost completely fell off the map, like night and day. She said her vag is fine now and she thinks it is from not having sex for so long. What do I do here? I was starting to like this chick and then bam shit got turned upside down. I know I'm not supposed to chase her if she is running away, but what should my approach be here? Do I just freeze her out, or will that hurt me since I have already established a good amount of comfort?

Give her space and time. If she is yours she will come back sooner or later.

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Stay calm. Try not to make a big deal or mention it. Give her space, text her to come over some time.

Yeah I forgot to write that.. Try and be indifferent if she flakes though.

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Alright, thanks for the replies. I have backed off considerably and she still initiates occasionally (she said good morning today) so I will just chill out and ask her to do something this weekend in a few days.

Its probably nothing but are you sure the doctor said there was nothing wrong? Its a bit weird that she went quiet after being given the all clear. If you have been having unprotected sex get a check up incase she has an STD and is embarrassed to tell you.

Id say its nothing though. I used to have crazy sex with this girl like 4 or 5 times a day for days on end and she ended up getting cystitis and had to have a full check up. She said the check up was horrible. She probably just hated having it done. I wouldnt worry about it.

Alright, it's good she still initiates. She's still interested. Act like this didn't happen. Be indifferent. You will see how she feels about sex when you initiate it next time. If she still backs off, treat it like LMR, but if it truly is a problem that she sees is important ask her if she wants to talk about it. Your biggest ally I think is to stay calm and confident.

Yea I had thought maybe she thought I gave her something since we are new sex partners and she went to get tested and was avoiding me till she got the results. But she just called me and we talked for a while, so I'm just going to back off like was suggested, aside from initiating a hangout, and let her come to me, and get tested.