Hi,

I'm not one to ask these sort of questions based on one girl but this isn't the standard PUA situation I get into. I also never thought I'd get into the situation of using FB to PUA but here I am

My friend told me that her friend thought I was good looking and wanted to meet me. I've never met this girl so I assume the only way she saw me was on FB. She's gone travelling for 6 weeks so I can't meet her. My friend suggested I add her on FB because apparently she was very attracted to me.

Not sure how to play it once we're friends. I've never done online game, strictly in person and texting. It'll be about 6 weeks before I'd get the opportunity to meet her so I need to keep her interested. I could add her when I'm available but she'll probably forget me or find it stalkerish.

Looking for tips to maintain some form of interest via FB chat. Done a search but most online game searches relate to dating websites.

And no I'm not going to get her number, calling abroad is expensive!

Having done my fair share of travelling i can say that the last thing on your mind when your away is someone who's trying to chat you up on facebook.

She will most likely be on facebook to upload photos and chat to her friends and family. She will be using facebook either from her phone (expensive so she wont be chatting) or from internet cafes so wont be just killing time.

Id wait until she comes home and has had a cooling down period of a few weeks. Coming down from travelling takes a week to kick in and the 'holiday blues' of 6 weeks in somewhere exotic and adventurous can be quite intense.

Go out and see different places while she is away. Ok your stories wont be as good as hers but if shes saying things like 'I rode elephants through the Jungles of south east asia' and all you have is 'i found £2 in the back of a taxi' in return it might seem a bit dull.

Wait till she gets back and gets into her routine. Then game her. People who have travelled are always more interesting than those who havent.

Well she actually hasn't gone travelling. I just said that to keep the length of the post down.

The real story is she was visiting my country as she does regularly and got to know some of my friend. She's gone back to her country but strangely enough in 6 weeks I'm moving to her country in a place close to where she lives.

Just to be clear, I'm looking of things to say and how to act. Usually in person I don't find this a problem. But what I'm trying to do is keep very brief conversations with her but talk once a week maximum briefly. This way I'm avoiding the LJBF thing by preventing me from getting to friendly but still have quick flirty convos.

Bumping this.

Is this whole thing weird? I hate adding people IDK. Really out of my comfort zone with this one.

Start taking a chance, add her and escalate it. And if she removes you did it really matter to begin with?