So I went out with this hb7 who looked like an hb8 when I turned up. We went for a drink after work and she had some friends there aswell. The night went great my game was the best it's been with all of her friends into me and I was bantering with them all. I mentioned to her we should go for dinner and she says maybe next time, so everything is working great. Then her flat mate turns up and somehow we manage to end up sitting next to her and got on so well I got her number and then the alcohol hit me. Alcohol turns me into someone else, so I said good bye to the girls and that i was going to meet some mates as i couldnt stick arounf feeling so drunk and made my way home then then I have a blank, but I texted the hb8 that I didn't think it was wise we met up again because she maybe going travelling. Why he fuck did my drunk mind do that? She then replied "Huh? Why? Did you not have a good night? Hope you had a good time with your friends?' will see u next time you're about x".

So I text her today that my mate had my phone and he was pranking everyone and that of course I want to see her again and have had no reply! She has always kept me at arms length until last night. Have I screwed up? Has she now spoken to her flat mate and thinks I'm a player etc? I don't have a clue what to do now! Fuck alcohol it destroys everything!

Your help will be so much appreciated people

let the weight sink-in a bit ...
dont panic unless you know for sure that its one of those cases... she might be busy or whatever. Play normal as you played before last night.. if you be non-apologetic then chances are you wont be held responsible.. and unless you had got rejected for bathroom sex with her SPAM, there seems to be no reason for you to be considered player.. it could be your normal self who has fun around with all the people... and if her flat mate enjoyed your company and it all went smooth then dont worry about it...
for the drunk text part you already have done the damage control... now sit back and play your game nice... dont fuck up acting all needy and AFC who is eager to explain his own actions... no need for that.

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Thanks a lot really appreciate that. You were exactly right anyway. She text me today saying she'd like to meet up when she is back from her holiday. So all good. Need to not drink as don't need it, if anyone has any way of controlling that then your advice would be much appreciated. Ream

the way to control drinking when out with frens or girls is to get a drink... and sip it in slowly taking your time and enjoying the drink.. dont be eager to gulp down the drink as this would make you get more drink... take your time and if done slowly you would feel that you dont need much of it to play your game.

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