| it could have been, but don't worry about it, you can fail shit tests and still do fine, one shit test doesn't really matter, but they all add up, you are being tested on what is congruent for you
when ever you are in doubt for how to respond to a girl, just shut your brain off, calm down, take a deep breathe, in a split second consider, if you could say or do anything right now, without any chance of anything bad happening, what would you want to do or say?
then do or say that thing
a ''shit test'' is also known as a ''congruence test'', and the easiest way to pass a shit test, is to just remain congruent, and all that requires is not emotionally reacting and staying unaffected, you can answer it how ever you want, as long as it falls under your frame
whats the optimal response?, there really isn't one, the words are not really important, just has to seem like it suites the flow of your emotions (it seems like you didn't think of what you said, but knew what you were saying)
if it seemed like she was trying to be playful and fuck with you, just fuck with her back and say some ignorant shit like,
I'M NAMELESS, MY MOM DIDN'T LOVE ME, QUICKLY, GIVE ME A NEW NAME
if she seemed serious, just give her your real name, who cares
the possibilities are endless
try to shut off your brain more when you are in set, focus on what you are feeling and transferring that to who you are interacting with, put your focus on them, rather then worrying about if you are doing things wrong or right, just do and don't think, analyze after the fact and think about where you could have improved, match a girls vibe then lead her into a vibe you want to be in, stay externally focused rather then internally
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