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Hey Everybody,
I'm meeting this girl awhile now and would like to make her my girlfriend but don't know how to go about doing so. I am wondering how i'd go about bring this subject up on Facebook or something just to see has she interest instead of jumping right into the deep in and ask her out in person?
Any advice?
Nope. Take her out, show her a great time, let her COME to you. Direct language with a woman is very unnatural and a turn-off. Women are seduced by the language of subtly and insinuation. They most always want to feel as though their decision to be with a guy "just felt right" - in other words, they are more willing to buy into something if it just seems to have unfolded organically.
The ONLY case asking a girl to be your gf would work is when its absolutely clear she wants to be with you, but even still I'd let her pop the q. Non-verbals are generally far more powerful than any spoken word.