So ive hung out with this girl a couple times and she seemed to be real into me. Shes been trying to see me the last few days, I just havent had the time but she sees it as me playing games and blowing her off.

Yesterday she calls me and asks if i want to hangout and i sarcastically say "not really" then laugh it off and we make plans to see each other later in the night. I guess she took it to heart because after a few hours i called her, she went on about how i make her feel stupid and she gets that were never gonna hangout. So again i tell her i was joking, and that i do want to see her. she then says shed rather hangout with her friends but she wants to hangout the next night. She sounded super flaky about it though, so i just figured thats that.

After i hang up, she texts me saying "sorry i just dont like when you make me feel stupid." I text back about 45 minutes later saying that i understand, that i am into her, and that i want to see her and to just give me a call when she gets off work the next day. she texts back later "Alright".

Thought for sure that was it. Then this morning when i wake up and check my phone, theres a text from her from 1 a.m. asking if i was still awake.

What is up with this girl? is she into me or not? I appreciate any advice.

I think she is into you. But don't apply the cat string theory too much otherwise cat will be gone for ever. Its all about balance and straight forward communication in any kind of human interaction especially dating. Learned the hard way, just being dumped. So, my 2 cents for you

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AFCMAc,

I agree with the poster below you. I am going to tell you something that I wished I learned forever ago. This is actually something a pastor(Yes, the man of god) told me. He goes...

"You know what the most important thing in the world to a woman is?....Your time."

It went off like an atomic bomb. He was right. I think it's good that you demonstrated value when it comes to your time, but you can't give her rations of it if you really want to pull this off.

You can still do some damage control, but really evaluate your next steps with this in mind. Can't wait to hear how it goes...

-TA

Thanks for your input guys.

So should i text something back, or what?

Yes, do something spontaneous!

Are you in a nice part of the states? Take a camera, go to a beautiful park and take pictures of her, pretending it is a photo shoot of some sort. This will build her self esteem towards you while being able to be playful. You can use playful negs when you show her some pictures and build her up on others. Like I said though the thing she'll love is that

A. No guy has ever done that for her.

B. You're doing something that takes time, and this may negate her feeling like you make her feel stupid.

C. Every girl loves to look at themselves.

After you're done you can also review the pictures while out to lunch or back at your place...and who knows where that could go?

I felt and behaved like that towards a girl before. I definitely liked her!

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