Ok so I was getting on the bus today and there was this HB8 getting on with me, there were two seats open so she sat down first, I sat down next to her and she smiled, I thought nothing of it, politeness, I guessed. This girl was playing with her hair a lot, and I mean constantly. Again, I thought nothing of it since it was raining, maybe she just liked the way it felt when wet IDK. The bus was also crowded but there was more than enough room to avoid body contact yet I'd feel her arm against a few times, but I just thought it was a bit crowded so she needed a place for her arms. The cute little smile coupled with the hair playing was what I interpreted as signs but I'm a noob and not comfortable opening around others too much. I decided not too open when she pulled out headphones and I didn't want to bother her. I found it weird that although there were two empty seats across from us she chose only to move there once I got off the bus. I'm not sure whether this is all in my head or if I was being given clues, thoughts?

Whenever in confusion, just open them up... at the worst you would have a nice conversation and a good time.. Opening is far more different than closing.. you dont have to #-close or f-close, just because you opened somebody... Take this as being normal (and not PUA) for a sec... lol... Having a normal nice conversation is not at all harmful. Since you can put-up your super-hero PUA constume anytime you want.

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do you need a girl to flash her titties at you for you to start a conversation? (that would be fucking awesome wouldn't it), if you are unsure and super nervous then just say hi instead of hitting on her, don't worry so much about about what the girl is thinking or what she would prefer, if you do you will fall into approval seeking patterns, simply focus on what you would like, it is really much easier to tell if a girl is into you if you talk to her, rather then start taking a massive dump inside yourself and revisting it over and over (did her putting her hands in her pockets means she likes me?, she looked down?, what does this mean?), body language is more like a tool to help you make an edcuated guess, you can be getting extremely positive body language that leads you to believe the girl would suck your dads dick just to get with you, then open to realize she is seriously dis-interested in you, and at the same time a girl can look totally non-receptive and closed off, and only be that way because she is nervous and terrified that you will notice her because she is into you, as a rule of thumb when trying to know if you are getting an approach invite or not, if the girl seem affected by you at all in any way, that is good enough for an approach, and positive body language signs such as smiling and preening are green lights, same thing with if a girl opens you for any reason, always assume no matter what there was a sexual agenda, there obviously may not be, but if a person puts forth the energy to open you, chances are they are interested, you just have to trust your gut and go for it, simply cause you want to

She was pretty much screaming at you to talk to her.

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Tough to say. Should have opened her if she was in your vicinity to find out.