Hi guys. I'm a doorman, and I get most of my numbers and make outs and ONS's at the club.

I made eye contact with a tall brunette, and threw some banter everytime she would walk by; she was clearly responding.

As she left, she grabbed me by the arm and went here's my number. Call me soon. It's clearly on.

I think I should ask her to come over to my place straight away. Paul Janka style. And physically escalate like a motherfuckin sex addict

But maybe some of you guys think a regular day 2 at the spa for exemple would be better.
I'm away for a week so we texted a little bit yesterday she seems really nice and relaxed. I'm 25 she must be ten years older than me.

nope, your idea sounds great, just don't be butthurt if she flakes, or she doesn't respond how you think, just throw out a different offer a different time, you don't need to go on dates at all if you have enough girls interested in you willing to give up enough compliance

just don't be shocked and amazed when a girl you have almost no connection with flakes on a house date, when she barley knows you, and at the same time, don't be shocked and amazed if she shows up wearing something sexy and you have a really fun night

just go for the gold man, and don't look back, you got this

GOOD LUCK

Women in their 30´s are the best. They know who they are and what they want, are still young enough to look and feel great and are mature and experienced enough to freely live their sexuality. If she gave a 10 years younger guy her number then you are onner then on toyboy LOL!
But then nothing in life is sure so listen to Pumpington, he´s very right!

I work two hours away the rest of the week so at first I told her we would have to wait until this weekend. But I will have to deal with logistics issues this weekend so I said tomorrow night.

She wants to go to a quiet bar, to get to know me a little she says; I said okay but it might not be as direct as I hoped; What are your thoughts on that guys?

I have a day 2 with a mature woman the next day; And two guaranteed fucks as well. This should be a fun week.

Well she obviously wants to be a lady about this, I´d say. Premature LMR so to speak. Maybe she´s also trying to find out if you are boyfriend material. Or both.
Hard to tell, if we could read their minds we wouldn´t need to learn the ways of the PUA. Even more so if we´re talking about a lady we have never even seen

However, I don´t see that you have to worry though. Sounds like you are set up perfectly with another date the day after and two sure lays later this week. So you have no reason to be needy and you can play it cool. And if she won´t sleep with you after going to the bar you´ll still have the benefit of finding out if she´s worth giving more time. But honestly I think you got this. Just don´t buy into her frame if she´s after something "serious". But I guess you know that anyway!

Enjoy your week sounds like you´ll have fun no matter what.

Peace!

He's defo one of my favorites because I don't smell any bullshit in his claims this man walks the walks and has nothing to hide.

So I'm gonna see her tonight, how do I go about this? I was thinking of kionoing her early on. How do I bring her back to my place? Should I kiss her first? Or only at my appartment? Where do I start if I wanna follow mystery method? In C1 or in A3?

I just turned down a booty call and I'll drive four hours this night for this broad. If she doesnt spread her legs tonight I'll call all my numbers that I dont care about and game aggressively in the middle of the night if I have to.

just don't work yourself up man, relax about this, kino early on?, just touch when you feel like it, it doesn't have to be planned, just touch while talking, not specifically in any order or anything, but pay attention to how compliant she is

as for when to kiss, that is totally up to you, sort of like kino, any time you feel you want to but I wouldn't heavily make out with her or anything before taking her home, it might spook her if it is the first date, just have a fun time and figure out an excuse to get her home that isn't hey wanna fuck?

having a drink, or showing her some amazing thing that she just has to see at your house, or having a poker set for a game or what ever is a good idea, just throw out the invite out that makes the offer somewhat appealing if possible, make it seem like it isn't a big deal or you don't have some huge plan behind this, once you get home, make out and start feeling her up

as far as mystery method goes, bring value and connection, instead of going in a linnear order, just consider the whole process of socializing like fluid, constantly moving back and forth between comfort work and attraction work just based off the vibe (I like to mostly focus on just having fun with qualification with teasing+reward, use rapport breaks when things get boring or when she is getting testy, keep any negative validation under a playful frame and when she qualifies to something you like reward her, then relate that thing to yourself through a story that relates *if you have one* and mostly keep the focus on her, it's her show, i'm just directing the play and commenting on it from time to time with a story that relates and telling her how good the show is or teasing her about it)

also enjoy yourself, if you are, then almost by default she will

GOOD LUCK

Great advice here.

She's being typical... If you'd wanted - you probably could have fucked her that night she gave you the number. She was mentally in a place where her inhibitions were lowered, thus the phone number.

Then she backs to a slower pace once the realization hits in. Not a bad place to be - the interest is obviously there. Every girl has the bad-girl side to her... You just got a glimpse into hers....

Can you get her to come to your place BEFORE you head out? If so, it's the easiest way to escalate later. Invite her in, show her around quickly, establish an easy rapport, then leave. When you come back - it won't be that big of a deal, she'll feel safe...

Game on man!

RR

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Holy shit it was a porn-like experience ill post the lay report tomorrow

Damnit...wish I got in on that. Lol

See, we all told you you got this bro!!!

Thumbs up!

Waiting for the lay-report!