This happened to my friend several weeks ago and I could not think of what to tell him. He is a very good looking natural and gets tons of women.


What can you do when she is talking to another guy and its a chill interaction but you see it getting more chill then your down with?

I said be chill and don't react, simply act normal. But this is AFC? In a social SPAM (non-club) this can be hard to mitigate. Although I have encountered a similar problem before so I need help on this issue also.

Thoughts?

Put yourself in the girls shoes. Let's say for example your friend is the one getting others girls numbers in front of girl A. If girl A got completely pissed at you for doing that and moved on, could you blame her? Probably not, you'd probably accept it was your fault or you didn't care much for her in the first place.

Do the same. You can't accept being treated like that, I would move the fuck on and let it be her loss. She doesn't respect your friend and probably never will.

to add to titanman's post, OR you're friend has been put in the friend zone and he hasn't realized that yet. Another possibility is that she is trying to make him feel jealous. Girls are like dogs in few things.. They can definitely smell when a man is scared so his best go is to not show any reaction and continue what they were doing few minutes before she gave her number.

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If I was out with a girl who got someone's elses number in front of me I definitely wouldn't just stand there and get played. At the very least I'd say, "Thanks for a nice evening." and then go to leave. If she chases me down then she chases me down. If she doesn't no big deal because I'm on my way to my favorite club to replace her punk ass with someone better. NEXT!

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Thanks guys really big help. And Titanman your right on the money she was out to play power games to get him jealous. And no she did not respect him. In fact the crazy chick told him she loved him and acted otherwise.


ANOTHER question revolving around the same issue.

When it’s the same situation but you just met the girl that night and the venue is not a crazy club but a slow bar.

It changes the dynamic a bit because there is much less commitment on her end. And in my case there were no other women or guys around to speak to. It sucked because he came up when I was isolating and was in a low tired state at the end of the night.