My goal is marriage and starting a family. More for the responsibility and purpose in life than anything. Not really fussed about the amount or quality of sex, or how quickly it gets to that.
I'm actually borderline asexual. I've been learning Game to mask it and have been getting
good results. "Acting aloof and disinterested" comes very, very easy. I get women attracted, aroused, physically comfortable with hugging/kissing/etc. It has been an incredibly fun journey.
If a bit dangerous for the ego!
But... when it comes to her wanting to have sex I.... don't know how to take it from there. At an instinctive level. Going through a few good sexual technique books should teach me to mask it, but recently I've been wondering. What if I were to focus 95% of my efforts on romance and courting instead.
How does the approach change? Would focusing on flattery, compliments, projecting being a father figure be the right approach? Does it run the risk of killing sexual attraction (which is of course necessary, let's face it...)?
CHAT