So this hot Columbian I've been messaging on POF has got back to me after disappearing for a day.

She had asked me if i was going on holiday and i told her where i was thinking of going.

she got back to me last saying where she was thinking of going. she didnt end with a question which normally gets alarm bells ringing.

question is, the conversation is a bit boring at the moment. how do we turn it up a bit to make it more fun. bear in mind she told me right at the beginning when i asked her to tell me more about her that she is not a player...

perhaps i should point out to her that people who say they're not something usually turn out to be the very thing they claim to deny. jk.

She is qualifying herself to you. Accept her qualification before you tease and banter. Don't tease her on not being a player. Tease her on other topics so you can make her commit that she's fun and adventurous so you can f-close her the soonest.

Being not a player is supposed to be a good quality among women. Get her to commit in writing that she's the type who goes for commitment and loyalty while still remaining a fun and adventurous person.

What is a boring topic is a matter of perspective. You should always see this perspective from the eyes of the girl.

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