Seriously guys, has anyone else discovered this? Not the game, but the fact that once knowing about the game has actually set you back, rather than helping you get girls.

Since I discovered game, I haven't given a single woman a compliment, unless I really had no interest in her at all.

I have had sex with many women, however, this was all before I discovered game. i USED TO JUST GO WITH THE FLOW AND WOULD GET LAID! Not as often as I would like but certainly a hell of a lot more than I am doing now.


I feel I am over anylising everything. I am putting up barriers that I used to just let flow. Wtf? I feel I was far better naturally than I am now.

Heeeeelp!!!???

You're your own worst enemy.

I know 'game'. It's part of me... but I'm NATURAL in front of people. Frankly, knowing the human dynamics makes getting pussy simple. It's NOT work - it's entertainment. Depending upon my mood, I'll caveman and F-close that same day if I feel the vibe, or I'll number close and fuck it later.

But dude, it's FUN, it's part of me and I don't even think about it anymore - it happens.

Get out of your own way and chill the fuck out. Be natural.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

It seems to me like you're taking the game approach far too literal. There are people out there who the routines and scripts really help because they're extremely introverted and they lack social skills. Sounds like you didn't have that problem and you just wanted to increase your success rather than build from the ground up.

Don't over analyze everything, that seems to be when most people hit their road blocks. Don't "recreate" everything you're doing, take what you like and intertwine it with your natural game. Just relax, results are what matter, if what you were doing before was getting you results, then take a step back. See what areas you're not quite up to par. (For example: My tough areas are mid game and texting) If you're naturally funny and open and you can build rapport with people don't focus so much on scripts and routines, rather focus on key points while you're talking to people.

Don't you think that is a good thing? Some say ignorance is bliss, but fuck that. You know what you are missing out on, you know what is obtainable and that you have a lot of work ahead of you (Maybe not too much if you are a natural). I think you are building up all this and trying to be perfect, so anytime you fail, you get down on yourself because you know what could have been.

Take it step by step. Realize you are going to fail, but learn from all of those mistakes. If you were that good before you learned about all of this, imagine what you are going to be like once you have set out and mastered the techniques and yourself.

You'll be UNSTOPPABLE!!

You can have your HB4's and 5's anytime, I'll stick to the higher quality of women gaming has given me...
(btw, I'm saying your standards are higher now, your not just banging any girl off the street, if you wanna go back to that i'll laugh the entire way) yet again, I call those "standards" that show you arn't "easy"; if you just want a cheap lay go back to the strip clubs you paid for

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

That's called being a "natural," and it is what inner game is mostly directed towards achieving. When the pick-up community first came out, routines were mechanical and process-oriented, not to mention geared towards picking up girls in bars & night clubs, where women act much differently than other places. In a sense, guys learned how to act like, or to fake, being an alpha male.

As the game evolved, the focus became more inner-directed, and the males were still learning techniques but the end result was that the guys actually learned to become alpha males, that is they were building a more perfect version of themselves from which their behavior and personality flowed naturally.

You should probably ditch the routines and go back to developing and strengthening your natural game. Personally, I never neg a girl unless she has put up a bitch shield or is CBing me from a target. I have no problem at all giving girls compliments, and I don't care what other PUAs say. I don't compliment every one, but if it comes up I'll certainly say it and if it doesn't mean the girl automatically decides she's won the battle.

Please tell me people aren't still memorizing Mystery's lines and regurgitating them...

People - learn the CONCEPT, not the routine! Then - you cna make your own routines - and 'game' becomes 'YOUR GAME'.

Until people start actually seeing WHY things are said, rather than what is being said - you're destined for failure.

And, frankly, I'm glad for the failures... if 100 men were successful, a PUA would have to re-evolve. The more AFC's there are - the better I game. Ideal situation - 2-3 mPUA's in a club together. Then one can hit the set, one can wing, and one can run other sets with which to bounce in/out.

But if this shit isn't fun and enjoyable for you - re-evaluate yourself.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

It's possible you found the wrong "philosophy" for pick up. There's actually dozens of different schools (figuratively and literally) for how to "game" girls. Some are more direct than others. And even for the most indirect approaches, there's still room for a complement. As long as it comes after you've shown that you're a cool guy (and therefore the complement means something), and as long as at least one of those complements is about something non-physical.

The Game is best summed up as a piece of literary fiction. Next time you read something don't be so gullible.