Hey guys,

I need help, please see my post about a date with an hb7 I have on Friday In my other post. We had agreed to go out on Friday for a few drinks and she was really up for it, now I've just got a text to say we can meet at 5pm as scheduled but she needs to leave at 6pm for a leaving drinks, talk about let down. I'm tempted to just tell her to leave it... But is this the game? What do I text back..,, is she testing me? I need to reply back in a min. So your answers soon please guys thanks.

Ream

Please don't make duplicate posts asking to go to another thread. If you aren't getting the results you want from you post. Then post again below your original thread asking for help.

It's probably too late at this point but I'd just drop it and do it another time.

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your to busy for nonsense; reschedule

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anytime a chick adds an unreasonable modification to a date, after it was already planned, I would freeze out and re-engage under plans which suit your ends.

The problem with agreeing to major new terms is that it sets the frame that she is in control and the being the prize you are pursuing under her conditions. So when you agree to her terms she respects you less in general. This happens when girls try to reschedule dates, I always tell them that their amended time wont work(even if it fine), as I've found my rescheduled date close rate is 4x worse then normal, non-altered date close rate.

She's giving herself an exit you should of given before... reschedule its a test... that's what I think anyways

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JSssss whatever your name is, firstly the message wasn't a duplicate. Secondly I never told anyone they had to read it, it was an option. Who do you think you are on here to tell someone how to write a message!

Anyway it turns out she does have a drinks to go to and she wants me to come with her, the old me would have have knocked it on the head but I played it differently saying I had to meet some mates at 9.30 to 10.30 so I'm not going to hang around for hours and she said why don't I join her. Anyway jssssss do one!

Calm down.

He's right.

Don't make a thread asking us to read another thread...it's simply not polite, nor convenient.

So... all bullshit aside, do you have a question?

RR

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My name is Jon aka JSmooth and I am one of the oldest moderators for this forum as it says above my name and avatar on the left. That is what gives me the authority to tell you to please not write posts asking people to read your other posts per the forum rules. You are new here. My recommendation would be to read the forum rules if you haven't already.
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A lot of newbies like to post the same thread in multiple sections of the forum to draw more attention to their issues, thinking they can get responses faster. Please do not partake in this value-sucking activity. Post one thread in just one section and be patient. If you think you would rather have your thread be in another section of the forum, delete your thread and re-post in a different section, or ask a moderator to move it for you.

This doesn't have to be a big deal. Just accept the warning, don't repeat the mistake, and go on with life. Thanks!

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Ream, as a general rule its bad form to question moderators without an overriding reason. Without some form of hierarchy (based on meritocracy) this forum couldn't remain in existence.

Tell her "hey I decided I'm going to be out longer than 1 hour. You're going to have to get drinks before your bedtime without me "

It's not great game...but it is what it is.

I wouldn't waste my 1 hour buying this girl drinks hoping it leads somewhere. Usually i try to lead. In a hour you CAN make out with her. But I personally like not giving a shit about the outcome too...even though...as men we kind of do....most of the time.

In all fairness I never duplicated a message, I mentioned read my other post so people could understand where I was coming from on this - I have not duplicated and therefore you are incorrect. I also was not trying to promote another post as I had a dilema, and needed people to know where the dilema came from originally.

If you had simply said "Hi it is best to quote your previous message here, as we dont advise to ask people to read another message of yours in another area" I'd then have much more respect and also you would be making much more sense. I did not duplicate, fact. Now focus on what we're here for and moderating this forum in way that helps newbies, therefore not just focusing on pedantic issues like the one above thank you.

Dude, are you dense? Just shut the fuck up and move on.....

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

RESCHEDULE.

Be cool, be nice about it.

"Hey no worries! Better yet let's reschedule to a better time for both of us" kinda thing.

Man, reading this thread I get the feeling that you are a bit stubborn and don´t take critique too well... regardless of the issue you need help with (and I understand your eagerness to be coached by other members of the community) I can tell you that the kind of attitude you are displaying will certainly NOT help your game in general!

Getting that defensive over a formal issue makes me assume that your inner game needs work...

Thanks agent good advice. Retiredrodeonob! Why don't you shut up and get my point! I didn't duplicate a message you twat, now shut up and mind your own business!