| So last Thursday me and this girl are suppose to go to the movies, but because her phone was stolen (had to speak via FB that day) it ended up being cancelled. She asks for it to be the next day, I say I am busy thruout until the evening, and so Friday comes. Over the evening we use FB again, get things in line, I am with my friends so my replies are very logical/boring, just quick responses mostly. An hour prior she asks if a friend that had just returned from somewhere could come along (a guy), w/ no way of saying "No" w/o DLV, I say IDC.
Calls are made, finally get altogether, etc., tad droll there too, but we eventually head out and drive in my car to get there.
This guy, clearly having known her for a lengthy amount of time and her friends, constantly brings up events I had no part in. I do some teasing, that were pretty much insults cuz it was killing me that I couldn't get in the convo, but I would playfully swipe her with my hand when I spoke. Usually when I spoke, all went quiet, then they started speak about something else. Though, usually when we walked, I walked a little ahead, and a few times she sped up near me. In the car, both times, she went straight for the front seat, and put her friend in the back (and not a small guy either, think football defense). I also noticed that when we were on the escalator-like pathways, and the other guy got close, she would edge away.
During the movie she was a little antsy, but at one point during the movie I realized my lips were chapped and wiped them. She mimics. I do it again a few moments later, she mimics. I just go back to watching the movie, wasn't sure how to take this.
The drive home was about the same. Invited them in for drinks for the heck of it, still not sure why. She patsy's the q to the guy, he says no, i shake his hand, start to walk off, realize i forgot her, and she noticed it too by her face. She puts out her hand for a knucklebump, i just do that, i pull back after about a second and head home.
Havn't spoken since that Friday night, not sure what to make of it all. I think he's friendzoned cuz she went thru her hair like mad everytime Thor came on the screen, but nvr while looking at this guy. I rarely spoke looking at her, so I don't know what she wouldve done. Also, when I looked her straight in the eyes, she held, jumped, looked at her friend for a second, then back, etc.
She talked openly about guy friends as this other guy brought up things, and only once said "ex." She stuttered a bit when I mentioned an ex by hair color (we were talking about gingers). She was also hesitant to say her female friends names, which confused me greatly.
So, I am trying to decide if I should even talk to her again. I am really thinking just friends at this point. And this was prolly venting more than anything, but advice is always welcomed.
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