Hello to all here! Im new to this great forum and english is not my first language.

Here is the short version of my story.

Im 23 old male, Im styding, Im artist, musician, I have very poor social life, I dont go out, I dont know how to act in crouded emvoirament , I have one or two close friend that know now from middle school. I never kissed a girl, never been with a girl and never sleept with a girl... Internet videos and my imagiation been my escape... Im just very shy around girls and dont know what to do...

All my time as really young and in my middle school I was learning and practicing instrument... never go out in club or party ... I dont have self confidence or very little. Im very much shy and fear of public speaking... But I can ask stranger on street what time is it or wheres that street or similar, I cant imagine my self starting conversatin with a girl relaxed...

It doesnt bothered me so much until last 2 years when and I just recently descoverd that the game can be learned and I want to learn it and to be good in it but I dont now how, from where, what first ... I never had a male rolemodel in my family...

Is it to late for me???
I have a little energy and I would like to try to correct wrong things.
How can I learn what to wear by my body type, what kind of haircut... I just need help, I dont know is there any PUA in Belgrade that maybe can help me? But please can someone give me advice?

_________________
Artist - Musician

First I would read "The Game" to get some motivation, for me, after I read it, I really started getting into this stuff. I am still a very early learner, but my eyes are beginning to open on how a woman's psyche works. Before I started looking into PUA stuff, I would have never known what shit tests are and I would obviously get defeated every time. Other big important thing I learned is to by real touchy, for me since I am a novice, I usually have to drink a bit to loosen up.
Anyway, as your stepping stone, read the game if you haven't already. Then you will probably want to do the newbie mission, which is basically say hi, how are you to every person, whereever you are. If they open up, have a conversation, if not move on. I actually just started doing this myself a lot too. Lets say I go shopping, and when cashier says how are you today?, I tell them how my day was in a few short sentences and ask how they been. I don' justt say, "good" anymore. But for me I really started memorizing some openers and it was my first good feeling that this stuff works man.

Well,I'd say you first need to identify your weakest point: the way you look, how you talk to people,lack of a social circle... it can be anything, you should start working on it as soon as possible. As you begin to solve it (specialy if you have a self-confidence issues) you will start feeling good about yourself and it will be reflected on the outside: you can't make people like you if you don't like yourself. Take it slowly,set your priorities. You should also take a look at Neil Strauss other book, Rules of The Game, as you started with The Game. It is more of a guide than The Game,which is more of a biography of Style.
And just to tell you,it is never too late to make a change.

you're younger than me.. and I have only been playing the game for 2 months..

_________________
nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

Fair play for saying all this so openly. That takes some.

I cant help too much with game but with personal style i can help a bit. Buy GQ and Esquire magazine, they have very few badly dressed men in there. Look at what and how they wear clothes. Also Mr Porter (google it) has great sartorial advice. Individual style is always a good thing, dont dress the same as everyone else. As for hair cuts, find a good expensive barber and ask thier advice, they will know what looks good with your head/body type.

You can pm me if you need anything. I hate the word pua, but I've been doing this for a while. btw, there are bunch of puas in Belgrade.

_________________
I have to return some videotapes...

i'm 38 and i've just stumbled on all this info. wish i knew all this at 23!

although admittedly i never had a problem getting girls into bed at 23.

It is not too late man. Stay on this forum, there is very good advice one here. In fact, incredible advice.

The Game is not a bad place to start. But after that, really look into inner game stuff and just the mentality of how to get girls.

Magic read the game for motivation, now you have a lot of issues in personality etc... you need to do a lot of work here is my list:

Warped Mindless newbie guide(lounge)
the game(motivation) style started almost in his thirties i believe..
how to win friends and influence people(read it 3 times by dale carnagie)
Psycho cybernatics(best inner game book imo)
Join different college social groups, i am not to big on fraternities but they have a bunch of different groups, join a pua lair or whatever..

_________________
Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a dancefloor/club environment, check out my blog and youtube channel:
http://www.dancefloorseduction.com

Dancefloor/Club game youtube channel:
http://www.youtube.com/dancefloorseduction

Thank you all for such a fast answer and thank for support.

I just have read the rules of the game, whole book and I see now how much work I have...

@tay i get it, to try to speak a liltte more then just hello.

@Evilx i think that my weakest points are look, i have no styule of dress, Im slim built, 183 cm, 70 kilos, I cant just find anything that looks good on me... how should I dress attractive like women are? I saw that sites where you can buy until i try it i cant buy it because i dont know how it looks on me.

Hardest is how to like myself in order other to like me...? I just cant imagine myself how have big social circle and to have a girl but i want it?

@skills360 thank you so much on recomendation I will get it to this bok as soon as posible.

_________________
Artist - Musician

Hi Magic,

I have some trouble replying to your PM. Can you please PM me your number and I'll text you.

BR,
Defy

_________________
I have to return some videotapes...