I really need advice and support on this ASAP. Please help me.

It sounds really stupid, but I've been putting way more effort into PUAing and socializing with girls in general (even abstaining from jerkin off to help the cause). I'm starting to get more confident and am having continuous little successes. However, I'm starting to second guess my self. You see, it feels so good and I feel a snowball effect of confidence, but when I step back, I ask myself "Did I really just do that?". What ensues is that I second guess my successes and literally feel like I'm sabotaging myself. Has anyone ever felt like this? When things are going so good it feels bad? I don't know if that makes sense but if anyone can offer advice on how to move forward and not have these thoughts, please help me!

Think less.

Do more.

It's normal. What you're feeling is the internal resistance from changing how you think/act. Remember your body always wants to stay in equilibrium and maintain a sense of continuity. This is why people hit plateaus or find themselves inclined to adopt routines and pastel colored schedules. Your mind is not used to "Hot girl. Approach." It's used to "Hot girl. Get nervous." So every time you do the former, it will seem unnatural and your mind will resist against your body. You need to fight it, and keep fighting it until you overcome it.

You're also likely over-analyzing everything around you because you just recently learned all this. That's normal too, you're hyper aware of social cues because you now KNOW to look for indicators of interest or open body language. You're analyzing your approach, contemplating your mid-game strategy, etc. After you have enough in-field experience, you'll get used to it and it will feel more natural and genuine. You won't be second guessing yourself. Remember your goal is to internalize the principles and concepts you learn, making them apart of the core of your personality. Having "alpha traits" listed on a piece of paper and mimicking them every time you go out won't do anything for your frame.

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Thank you so much. That really helped. I approached a milf today at work and got her number. Afterwards, I felt invincible, like I could approach any girl. I suppose the quote "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we can grow powerful beyond measure" really is true. I will continue to fight these bad feelings and approach every piece of ass I see. Thanks again.

This is normal and I bet everyone has or had it. I've been in the game for a while and still have my days when I think about it. Our minds play with us every day.

It's good to realize progression and make sure you start seeing the positive. Be proud that you've taken chances in life and use it to your advantage. It'll make you become even better!

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