Okay been a while since I have posted. But I find myself,once again in a weird situation, and I have found that putting it in words and hearing input usually help clear things up.

GIRL 1:
Me and this girl have a lot of chemistry. It was always teasing flirting for about a month or 2. And we got to be good friends. She was basically a oneitis for me. I felt frustrated.

Although during the whole process I kept my cool and my frame was strong.. I never showed her the effect she has on me.

Okay so I decided fuck it and leave it be... The very next day we ended up doing a project together, we did it at my house. She placed her head on my shoulder when we finished(I decided no or never)... I escalated.... She ended up staying 3 days with me(no sex). The lack of sex was not due to lack of trying. In the 3 days we made out for almost 17 hours.. I escalated like fuck. I tried every LMR trick/move/gambit I know. She came chasing after me, but not all the way. I got rejected millions of times when moving further. So my jaw is tired my lips are sore, and I have not one orgasm to show for it. After this time I felt in control. I was less invested and my usual cocky self not caring about her..

Since we are friends she has told me about a guy she likes. The one morning in bed he called her to ask her out, to which she said no. And then we talked about him... Or she was trying to explain, and I was trying to get rid of my morning boner. She took it up as if I wanted to prove I'm better than him or something, which wasn't the case... I was just fucking horny.

She has made it clear to me that she doesn't want a relationship. But she also said that when she wants one I'm above this guy on the list.. QUESTION 1 : WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?

Okay I don't want a relationship right now or I feel like it's not the smartest decision. I'm too young for that shit. I'm happy with the way things are... Yet I do not like the fact that she has feelings for another guy while being in bed with me most of the time.. QUESTION 2 : AM I STARTING TO WANT A RELATIONSHIP? I know feelings for a previous oneitis can't be good...it just doesn't fit.

And I have realized that she might be a virgin... So I guess that may be a reason for not having sex.

We keep everything secret from out friends... I do not really know why but it's fun.
This girl is sort off treating me like a boyfriend. She has shown signs of jealousy when I am with other girls(she knows I move around) but she doesn't do the same.

QUESTION 3 : Anybody summarize what I have described above... Having someone looking at it from a 3rd perspective usually helps.. So tell me where I stand.

GIRL 2:
She likes me a lot. We have sex. Thinks she wants more than a relationship, not sure, but her spamming my fb wall helps with girl 1. No questions here.. Just wanted to write about more than one girl for the sake of it.

Also if you have read all the way to down here. WOW. I am feeling sleepy reading about my own problems.

Girl 1 - Question 1: She wants a guy to fuck her - just not you.
Question 2: No, you are sexually frustrated because you went the 'friend route' in the strong frame. Cocky Funny does not work on a 2 month scale and just ends up as a tedious friend relationship.
Question 3: You stand nowhere. You can probably fuck her, but you'd have to be pretty aggressive and persistent when you do it and even then the LTR is extremely strong. I don't see it going absolutely anywhere good.


Girl 2 - is she uglier than girl 1...why are you so hooked on Girl 1 other than the oneitis? [/b]

Both girls are completely different. I don't really know how to rate them but lets they on a night out both of them get pretty much hit on a lot.

And I know girl 2 likes me.. While I don't know a lot about girl 1 which intrigues me somewhat. I just wanted to summarize the situation.