I feel like the biggest pussy ass bitch. I have not done one single day time approach and I have not approached at night in months. I feel like I lost my mojo. I drive a beautiful BMW which has helped to destroy my game. I feel like I've read so much shit but my social anxiety is so bad I have not even tried this stuff and Ive never felt so unconfident and unmotivated in my life. I feel like dropping this whole game thing and just online dating... -_- I donno.... maybe I need to see a specialist about my social anxiety...

I was at your stage in the beginning, sure most people here were. You probably tend to over analyze everything and haven't had much success with women in the past.

My advice would be to download some content on the inner game. This really helps with acquiring the motivation and confidence needed to do complete the approach after you haven't been in the game for a while. It really helped me after I broke up with my girlfriend and wanted to get back into the game.

Since you have a nice car, you already display higher value to women by showing that you have resources and some form of intelligence or good upbringing to acquire that car. This puts you at an advantage and I would suggest using that resource to make some female friends and help rid of that anxiety around women. I don't know about your work/life to suggest where to find these female friends, but in a place where women aren't looking for a mate, like the workplace, class, lectures etc.

I would also suggest getting out into the real world. Start going to gym, join a dancing club, join something that you enjoy doing and feel comfortable with as there will probably be like-minded individuals there that you can relate to.

No one's is going to change your life for you, you have to do it for yourself.

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Sometimes I just want to cut it off...

Good advice there.. We all pass through this stage. What I realized at the end is I should learn the game from a general point of view and don't go into very small details.. Those small details like how exactly to perform a routine and what to say at what fucken sec and bla bla bla.. This will just mess up your game.. Be confident and get ready to fail many times.. After 50 rejections you won't care anymore and it will be fun True story

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In this world, you don't get what you deserve but what you fight for!

what ever works for you,

self improvement is difficult, it takes a reasonable amount of discpline to develope new habits and drop old habits, the saying old habits die hard is well known because it is true

you just have to find what motivates you, you know what you want, all that is left is making a plan to do it, then following through with that plan, if you want to start pickup, just pick a day any day, but actually select a day, that day is your start, from that day forward, no matter what, single, girlfriend, married, in hospital with severe 3rd degree burns all over your body, talk to one new girl a day, you don't have to get her number, you don't have to sleep with her, you don't even have to have a long conversation, just simply make your goal to meet a new person and at the very least say hi, start somewhere small and reasonable with your goals so that it requires less discipline to maintain the habit, then continue to enforce discipline and develope the habit that can later be worked on and developed further

rome was not built in a day, taking practical steps to actually make a shift in your life can only happen if you make it happen, you can't just, read read read and expect that all of a sudden you have educated yourself to the point you are some magical pimp, unfortunately it is that know how, that confidence, that feeling that you know what to do, when this resonates through your body and going out to say hi to a few girls strike up a conversation with them becomes a normal every day to day thing, you will realize how simple it is (but you only will develope this confidence from experience, and putting yourself into situations you are un-confident in, and that can be really nerve racking)

it is really like going to the gym, at first going to the gym sucks, you probably don't want to actually do it for yourself you just want the results without all the effort, you get all sore the first day you go, you don't even want to try to hit up the intimidating weights or do any amount of cardio that would make you uncomfortable (or some guys have the other problem of being over eager, hitting weights that they are not ready for and failing hard or injuring themselves), eventually most people that go to the gym drop off because they lack the discipline to turn it into a habit, the guys that manage to maintain that habit will start to feel more comfortable and confident with the weights, before you know it, johnny has gone to the gym 6 days a week for 2 years and has the body of a greek god, he has improved so much, leaps and bounds from when he started, hitting the heavey stacks is just as easy as breathing for johnny now, when he started he couldn't lift 1/4 of the weight he does

you just have to find that discipline to keep yourself motivated, make a goal, set a timeline, attempt to accomplish that goal, after the timeline or goal has been reached, reflect on your process of accomplishing that goal and what sort of strategies were ineffective, and what sort of strategies were effective, eventually you will have a clear outline of what you want, and how to get it, follow the outline and improve the process

TL:DR you know what you want, force yourself to do it over and over, if you can't then maybe you just don't actually want it bad enough

GOOD LUCK

I appreciate all the advice guys it was really useful. I started going to the gym today and I feel better about myself already. I think its just something I must do not expect to be rico suave but develop my comfort around bitches by small talk and eventually progress to bigger better stuff.