So I met this girl 2 weeks and a day ago... we've chilled maybe 5 times the first four just meeting out at a bar, the last time I took her out for dinner before she invited me to come out with her and her friends for the night. At the end of that night, she asks me if she can see me the next night. I'm thinking she's really into me. Today I get the "I'm not looking for a boyfriend right now" text. WTF? Any thoughts/advice guys? I'm confused as to where the boyfriend thing even got into her head because like i said 2 weeks and 2 days ago I wouldn't have known her from a whole in the wall.

Have you been using kino and trying to escalate to get f-close or have you just been trying to get to know her?

If the former, you missed your window the night she asked to see you tomorrow.
If the latter, you are seriously close to being put in the friend zone. Kino escalate next time you see her.

it doesn't mean she doesn't want to fuck. well she doesn't right now but she could be in the future. it depends on you. it's not relationship dependent.

you did something wrong and she changed her mind. every girl wants a bf.

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I dont think an f-close is happening. She seems to be against that. But our interactions so far have definitely had a physical side to them.

Defy - I dont think I've done everything wrong. She is definitely interested, I havent lost that. I just dont get where the "boyfriend" thing came from

What is your intention with this girl?
Girlfriend boyfriend or fuck buddies?

To me she said she is not looking for a boyfriend, but we all know she wants a fuck.

learn to read! Man the fuck up and give it right where she wants it

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you have not provided to much detail to give a good idea of what the frame is so far, are you escalating?, how so?

what is the vibe you are getting from this, she is losing interest? or she just genuinely doesn't want a boyfriend right now but is still shooting off interest?

if you want this girl you have to go for it, not saying you will get her, but if you have a chance, that is your best chance, just don't sweat it

''cool, that takes alot of pressure off me, I don't want a girlfriend either''

you can do that or just say ''ok'',

go meet up with her like any other time, but next time just try to have some fun, get her alone, and close, full on sex, anything less might fuck you over in the future, you don't want her overthinking things until she comes up with some sort of weird ass reason why she doesn't want to be with you,

escalate, put the moves on her, don't try to say the right things so she puts the moves on you, don't wait for her to give you signs, just test the waters a bit with something small that requires compliance, if she has no problems with that, back off a bit then push it forward, then back off a bit, then push it forward, again and again until sex, you have to be willing to put yourself on the line for this, you have to just not worry about losing her and go for it, because if you don't, you probably already lost her anyways