Hey guys, need a bit of help.

I'll explain the night first then I'll ask the question.

My mate and this girl like each other and he's newly single, so we all went out clubbing on the weekend. The girl he likes has a housemate and they basically set us up, she's a solid 8, cute as. Anyway go there for pre drinks, my game was awesome, had her laughing and my mate tells me she said she's keen on me.

Anyway, we get the bus in and start talking and within 5mins we're hooking up (she's newly single as well), she drank a little to much and was pretty fucked so I looked after her while they went to get her water. Basically we hooked up the whole night, hinted at the F-close and she wanted it, the night ended up getting shitter because we had to wait 1.5hrs to get into a club they wanted to goto. In the end we all went home together but it was like 7am by then, we're all tired and two of her other friends stay over so I don't get to F close her.

Now my question is, do you think I should add her on FB and try to game her, the girl plays cod so we had a good laugh and tease about who would win, so I've got some material. But I reckon next time we go out I'll 100% be able to get it, which will probably be in a few weeks.

So the question is, do I add her on FB and game her trying to get a hangout (which will turn to f-close) or just wait until I see her next time.

Sometimes FB makes me unsure, I never want to come off desperate or creepy. She hasnt added me and she's seen my FB but I'm sure she would be a little embarrassed, she couldn't hardly walk for about 30mins to an hour and was completely smashed, but she did make a comeback.

Cliffs:
- setup with girl
- hooking up with her all night
- was sure of f-close
- didn't quite work out how I expected
- do I add on FB and game or wait till next time I see her

Never be afraid of adding such a girl on FB (unless there is something really DLV on there), especially with the circumstances. Though, if you want to set something up, call, FB is just for fun, maybe the occasional chat (best w/ the SPAM functionality) that leads to meeting up.

Kids and their facebook, seriously this FB stuff is weak as hell.

Do you have her phone number? If so, I'd make a point of calling her rather than texting, or even worse communicating through Facebook. If your only means of communication right now is FB then simply tell her you'll be needing her phone number and then schedule a meet, don't get into a long drawn-out back n' forth on Facebook, its too impersonal in spite of sexual innuendo and other techniques you might use. Always go with the mode of communication that causes the most amount of tension (in person/face-to-face>phone>text>fb/email). A lot of guys use FB as a means to maintaining communication with women as its easy and less threatening but in the end most women are well aware that he's likely a social retard who's afraid of approaching women offline.

You guys are definitely right about the calling part, but I don't have her number.. Should have grabbed it in hindsight but we were together all night and went home together.

As for FB, I agree and disagree, In certain circumstances it's gotten me laid, there are a few girls I've met through friends, had a laugh with, can tell there interested and woken up to a friends request. From there I can game them, most of those times trying to number close would be weird after hardly knowing them. With how much women use FB as long as you have good game, in circumstances like above I think it can be great also circumstances like the other night when some idiot (me) didn't get her number.

In general you're right though, for me it's just another tool when it needs to be, I'm not big on posting status' but I always have people posting on my wall, girls and guys which help.

Will add to FB, number close then have a crack at meeting up.