So...this girl I have been talking to for a month or so (a friend for a long time) is playing hard to get. Situation is this...we hooked up like a week ago and she wouldn't stop bringing it up. Making jokes about it(basically her armor to affection.) Anyways, this past friday she asked me if me and my friends were doing anything. Her living an hour away is getting a little ridiculous for the casual encounter then possible hook up at night. Anyways...i told her no but i will be in town tomorrow (Saturday) for my buddies stag party. That fri night i got a text at 2 am saying "nt lame"...i called her at like 230...her friend (female) answers and busts my balls. I call her the next morning to see how the night went and she was still hung over. Long story short...we made plans to day drink...me her and her friend Danielle. I text her after she had told me she wants to hang uut and asked me what time i was going to get up there. I didn't hear back from her until 7 pm that night. Something along the lines of a text saying...i needed to recover...so i called her 2 times all shit faced to let her know were going out to the bars...this was the first time in like a month she didn't answer her phone. I was a little pissed. In turn i saw on another forum this guys 5 step rule. Ignore her for 4-5 days and don't answer any texts. She has been texting me for 3 days now saying stupid shit like...are you at church? Stop silence texting me...mass text having a bonfire and BYOB...a picture message saying "yeah ARMY yeah" with the message saying I was going to attach glow sticks to this...and finally..."I must have missed the part as to why were not talking. mature. i'm done trying to get ahold of you. grow up." This is officially day 5. No phone call...all bs text messages...need help...or move on? Thanks guys.

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Seems like its move on time, Could try a last ditch effort with "Sorry (name) have been meaning to get back to you but have been super busy, How have you been?".

Or the same thing but no credit on phone some kind of variation on why you havn't gotten back to her.

This is why I don't follow those 3/5 or what ever day rules.

From my own experience HB9 told me she never initiates a text conversation. I figuered it was some self concious thing about not wanting to annoy or bother me. I played along, after a while I lost interest purely because there is the overwhelming feeling they are not interested/they are lazy fuckers.

Yeah i gave it a shot before I hit this thing up. I text her...Sorry been busy. I'm not stressed about it...but none her text messages were of any value except with the final one about telling me to grow up. She text me back after the "been busy" with "no worries bro. Gonna be a crazy one tonight" in reference to the bonfire she wanted me to know about. I'm tired of this shit with her...i'm not forcing myself into the illusion she likes me...but I'm at the point where she has to show some interest besides being ignored for 5 days to pick up the phone...

BTW i'm not planning on writing back to her about the "no worries bro..." text...

Lemme know anything more...thanks again.

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You goin to the bonfire?

Try your luck there rather than through a message.

No offense, but you sound SUPERneedy for this girl. Instead of telling us what the problem is and what you want, you just wrote an epic tale with every little detail about your interactions.

Just call her, set up a meet and lay her? What's the big deal dude.

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You've been the quintessential AFC this whole time!

She texts at 2am, and you CALLED HER at 2:30? Dude, she has a dinner bell. She shook it and you came running.

Also, NEVER drunk dial a bitch - ever. Be better than that.

You also have been responding to every fucking thing she does. STOP.

If you want her at all, regain control and don't allow her to have it again.

If youv'e already fucked her - settle down and say this "I don't give a fuck..." GO to the bonfire, hit on other chicks. If she's there - be cool. Be yourself, game other chicks, and if she tried to call you out for it, confront her. At THAT momoent, you gain complaince or you shitcan her.

Don't ever allow a woman to control unless you're so fucking good you can pull the strings to where she THINKS she's running the deal.

I'd NOT ask her about the bonfire at all. I'd ignore the bitch. If she was there and asked why you didn't contact her - call her shit out. It doesn't matter! You owe this chick nothing.

RR

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I'm commenting on the bolded parts...

1) AFC move. Never apologize for HER being an idiot. The rest of that "I've been meaning to call" is simply bullshit. If you wanted to call, you would. A 30-second phone call isn't difficult, and she knows it.

2) If they don't initiate texting - GOOD. Don't text just to text. Text with purpose. If your goal is to fuck a chick, text to seduce, not to 'chat'...

RR

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#1, Yeah AFC agreed, just a basic text to initiate contact again and get to it from there.
Thanks for the advice


#2, I took her out twice just super awkward backed away from kino, added to friends list rather than nexting for a chance to see what kind of talent is in her social circle.

Word up... It's like buying a quick pick in the lottery... you never know...!

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