So yeah, theres this new girl at the place I work...she's pretty hot, and seems cool as hell so far... but she's actually transferring already, even tho she's been working here for like a week or 2.....friday is her last day at our workplace.

I overheard her talking to the boss the other day and when I was on my out to lunch, we ran into eachother, so I struck up the conversation, "So, you're leaving us already..AFTER you got everybody sick!?"

She laughed, and we talked for a good 10-15 minutes...pretty much the first time we chatted since we actually work in 2 separate parts of the building.

the conversation went from our current work situation, to where we're both from and what brought us to where we're at now....a couple of our interests and hobbies.. and she even mentioned that her friend owns a store at the beach, which she will be doing drawings for sometime soon..she went on to explain her passion for graphic design and what not..

then she mentioned she had a boyfriend...but the conversation kept going, I didn't say anything about it, just let her keep talking.

then after that, she told me i should come down to the store at the beach, between this/that time because she's going to be doing lots of drawings and stuff...

at the beginning of us conversing, we both kinda facing eachother at an angle.....but after a couple minutes she squared herself with me, which i then turned a little bit to be squared with her, facing eachother normally....and she kept flippin thru her hair and what not...had open body language....she seems really friendly.

i don't know if she really has a boyfriend or not, but im asking advice on the situation......after this week, i won't see her at work ever again lol, so i was thinking about going to the store at the beach the night she's supposed to do the drawings...any tips/advice are welcome and appreciated

Okay...

IOIs mean absolutely NOTHING. A girl flips her hair and all this shit, believe what you will but shockingly ...some girls have a habit of fixing up their hair or 'priming' themselves around many guys. Contrary to evolution bullshit, some just do it and many girls are friendly.

If she has a boyfriend, state your intention. Don't say "we need to fuck sometime" but definitely as a man show her your interest and be openly flirtatious. How else is she going to know you like her?

I mean think about it people...think about it. If you are scared of the finalization of her answer and never talking to her again, you've become attached to the OUTCOME. And this makes you needy, and guess what - women are intuitive. They pick up on this shit..it's terrible I know [/b]

"blah blah blah" (mental masterbation) "blah blah blah blah..." (more mental masterbation) "blah blah blah blah BLAh blah blah!" (yet even more you guessed it MENTAL MASTERBATION!)


Ask her out, or just sit here ruminating and avoiding things.

You spelt masturbation wrong.

Good point though, I do the same and I hate it.