so heres the thing. i meet up with this cool HB8. We tlk and everything is good. shes chilled so conversation is easy. nw the thing is she doesnt seem to be sending out any IOI's (or mayb im nt paying attention). whn we wre abt to go our seperate ways i said tht id like to chill with her sumtyms, and asked 4 her number, she seemd abit suprised and gave me sum excuse of which later she tld me to meet her by the steps in the apartment whr she nrmally studies. i js wana find out wht type of approach shud i hv considering her hesitating to give me her number

Employ a sarcastic attitude: "You don't need to give me the number to be part of my chill list". "You'll just end up texting me 5000 times a day "

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

i js decided not to go. i thot to myself tht since shes a looker she'd b thinkin tht ima show up 4 sho. plus she went thre to study so it wnt b like i stood her up or anythng.

You should of went. I am guessing based on her reaction, she has a boyfriend. By going to where she asked you to, she was may have been trying to establish a secret bond ( maybe even a sexual one) The fact of the matter is, you showed your interest, and she invited you somewhere else.

Never assume to know what a woman is thinking. At the absolute worst you were right about her, at the absolute best, she wanted you to tare her clothes off. By not showing up, you took yourself out of the game.

You really had nothing to lose, if you went and she wasn't giving you the vibe, you could of simply said, listen I think your hot, I am interested, that's why I came here, but if you are not into this. I'm just gonna head out. See ya!

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.