Being surrounded by AFC's who strive to be no more then AFC's is frustrating. How can I assess who is worthy to take on PUA in my social circle and HOW do I go about convincing them to learn and read material?? They are so skeptical that it irritates me.

[quote="SlamBoy"]Being surrounded by AFC's who strive to be no more then AFC's is frustrating. How can I assess who is worthy to take on PUA in my social circle and HOW do I go about convincing them to learn and read material?? They are so skeptical that it irritates me.[/quote

I was in a similar situation, TBH, my friends all thought they're good with women and needed no help blah blah.

Never had a GF, not even a friends with benefit that I could recall etc. I explained what I do and showed them, they just thought I was lucky so in the end I sat them down and put the program "Pickup Artist" by Mystery that was on VH1 to them. I have both series.

They were sceptical but after about 3 shows were amazed how it could work, because they saw guys worse off than them pulling and having fun.

Don't brag, but in conversation when your talking about what you've been up to, let them know you've been on dates, hung out with women etc. It'll get them thinking and if they're AFC's, deep down they'd want the same.

If you do go clubbing, perform in front of them. Evidence of something good makes one seek it too.

Natural feeling!

Hope that helps.

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Yes very true. I need to perform in front of them more often but generally they just attribute to "luck" or just say that the girl was a "slut". I want to know what the first step should be in my process of showing them. Should I send them a link to the MM book or The Game and tell them that it changed my life? Or should I myself slowly start to explain it to them in person etc?

TBH I'd do both, while continuing your gaming as evidence when out and about, luck does not last forever.

Have you thought about just taking one of your friends out with you on an occasion, someone your close with and working your magic. This way, they can see first eye and you don't have a group talking and thinking luck they will probably be more likely to want to get involved.

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Honestly, it almost never works. Pick-up takes a lot of work and most people are too lazy or too brainwashed by society to make the effort. Lead by example. If guys see you get a ton of girls, then they'll ask you for help. One thing that you might try is to lend your friends a copy of The Game and see what they think about it. I've had moderate success doing that.

-Wolf

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Pretty much always true, you can lead a horse to water but you cant make them drink.

There is no easy route from AFC to PUA, there is an evolutionary/biological reason for that but I wont go into it here. If anyone is going to go from AFC to PUA its going to be a cathartic effort based on a major mental shift in their life.