I have become a jack ass to people. PEople think I treat them wrong since my tonality seems like I am making fun of them. My intentions are just to make people comfortable and make people laugh. But this made me seem like a dick to people and people dont want to take me seriousl and want to be clse to me.
Help please. THX

Can you give us some examples?

If you are getting banter and flirting wrong it could well be from poor body language?

yeah. i'm becoming a bit of a jackass too.

i'm a naturally funny guy with a sharp wit (i dont mind saying) but trying this cocky/funny busting is coming out like i'm some kind of jerk or weirdo...

i hit on this girl in front of my parents for some reason a few weeks ago and got totally shot down. my mum told me not to do that because 'you could see how awkard you made the poor girl feel'....

i'm thinking its because i'm still new to this and it hasn't become second nature. a bit like driving a car. i'm all fingers and thumbs at the moment but with a bit of practise it should become like an old coat.

here's hoping anyway...