yesterday i was in a situation sarging a chick , it all went wall and flirty , but when i asked her for her number , she said why do you want it , and i got confused .

so when a girl asks such question , how should you reply ?

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you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

''obviously to contact you''

if she challenges you further, ask her what she uses her phone for, then repeat her answer back to her as your answer

I did the same thing.

I was at the mall so at the end of the sarge i told her hey gimme your number , she was like why ? i told her to talk to you.

then she was like i have standers i dont give guys my number from the first time.
then i was like , too bad .

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you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

so handle her objection, just turn your back on her, walk two steps, turn around, walk back, say nice to meet you, who are you again?, then just say something retarded like...

well, now that we have met twice, we can hang out again, I don't want your number I want you, but to get you, gonna need your number *then pull out your phone*

but really a girl that is not interested is not interested, and will just shut you down no matter what you do, or finally give in then flake on you, but it is always worth a shot

also girls should know why you want there number, if they don't then you are not expressing yourself very well, your intentions should be known

also ask for dates, not numbers, number comes as a result of a date

That's why you don't ask for the number, you force her to give you the number. Put her in that awkward situation where she will have to give you the numbr.

Say 'well it's been fun talking to you but i have to go now! We must hang out sometime soon, here you go PUT your number on here'

thanks

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you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Very good advice. If I were you, I would do just this. Try to be a little cocky, and creative with girls.

You tell her the truth. Don't try to be cocky or funny, just tell her the truth. She will find your boldness and vulnerability extremely attractive.

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i remember adam lyons said justify why you want her number , but i was literally sitting on a bench in the mall i saw those to girls walking by so i was like hey girls come over here and i actully did it with my hands ordering them to come. but yeah as you said , i should've suggested that we hangout.

keep it comin !

garthy

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you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

depends on the type of girl:

shy: because you seam kinda cool, we should hang out.

in between: to make sure i don't accidentally call it of course *executed with a cocky smile*

if she then asks why you would accidentally call it - I wouldn't, I would call it on purpose *confident smile*

up her own arse: Because i felt like asking, and i do what i feel like *also executed with a cocky smile/losing interest in the shit she gave you*

This is the general guide line for what i do, obviously it has to be calibrated to the girl.

Hope this helps, Lance

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Million dollar advice there, no not really.

If you tell her the truth, you will appear needy and she wont give it.

What you have to do is not make her ask why you want the number, which is what will happen if people take my course.

"We've just met, I don't trust you enough with mine, you might be a stalker"