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Stop interviewing them when you run out of shit to say, and start stacking. Then, You'll never have any lag-time in conversation, and you can steer it in whatever way you want. To me, in VAK modeling, stacking provides the BEST opportunity for NLP.
Stacking is your friend.
RR
Ok Dude, I think this is my missing point the whole time. Can you provide me with good links or books about stacking.I googled and just found some random pages mainly talking about saying lines like "What's your story ...?"
Stacking is basic story telling, in stages.
Start a story line with her... then before you get to the finish, start another story... then go back and finish the first, start a third, and move on ... You continuously have stories to tell, and you haven't finished them either...
REHEARSE YOURE SHIT - be genuine, but also THINK out your story, run it by friends, make sure it's engaging and funny/endearing... Repeat it to yourself all the time, and think of questions she may ask. The secret is to always keep her interested, and involved.
The best part is - you can always bounce from that set, open another set, and come BACK to that original set with a "Hey we didn't finish talking..."
Stacking is your friend.
RR