Ok so this is totally freaky. My gf of one month dumps my ass yesterday and one of her good friends who I never met approaches me on match.com one day later. Don't even think she knows I was going out with her friend. Should I go out with her to make the other one jealous or could it backfire?

The goal is to show higher value to my ex and lay the foundation to potentially pull her back. I didn't approach the friend, she approached me. Not sure if this is a game the dumper and her friend are playing with me, but doubt it as I had my profile off till yesterday.

the friend is pretty hot, but my ex is way hotter but they hang out every week so am sure she'll be a bit perturbed if I go out with her knowing she's her friend. Thinking of banging her as well. haha

Dude, bang the friend, forget about the ex. She dumped you. Have some fucking pride man. It's her loss. Fuck her friend, her sister, fuck her mom, fuck everyone else. Never fuck the ex again unless she comes back begging for it, then fuck her and chuck her.

You are NYCguy. Nobody fucking dumps you dude. NOBODY! There's a million women out there dude.

You can either be a sheep and wait to get eaten, or you can be a wolf and do the eating.

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hahaha. You're a funny dude.

There's plenty of other chicks to bang man. Does going out with the friend, make the dumper want you more though? I got the best excuse, since the friend approached me.

Do it and find out. If you just go out on a date with her, perhaps! If you fuck the friend, then NO.

I did not want to tell this piece of info as I advise against even giving a fuck about the girl that already dumped you. LIKE I SAID BEFORE. HAVE SOME FUCKING PRIDE DUDE. she dumped you. I strongly advise erasing this girl out of your memory, but if you must play the game, start hanging out with the friend, but DO NOT FUCK HER. If you actually want the ex back ( < I find this so sickening, I almost threw up in my mouth).

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Hahaha.

Alright, will try to resist fucking her. The friend is a bit of a moron, so fucking her would be pretty easy I think.

Does anyone think this is my ex giving me a shit test by telling her friend to approach me on match? I mean it's pretty weird it's one day later, but if my ex wants an alpha, then I should go out with her friend. An alpha would't sweat being dumped and wouldn't turn away tail so reckon this is a win win.

Dude if she dumped you, it's not a shit test. She dumped you because you did not match up to her standards in some way. Chicks don't shit test after they break up with a guy, it's either before or during.

I am not sure what answer you are waiting for.

My initial advice is my strongest. Fuck her friend, then go fuck every other girl you want to. erase the ex, she had her chance and fucked it up. It's her loss.

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Sounds good SexAddict911. Thanks for the straight advice.

Do this now!

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Your intention has more to do with the outcome than the action you are actually performing in this case.

Now if you were generally interested in her bestfriend and was going to sleep with her because it was something that you desired, then of course your ex is likely to come running back to you. Now if you intention is to sleep with this girl just so your ex can come crawling back your fighting a losing battle. Not only is this girl not going to want to sleep with you(unless she has some hidden revenge she wants on your ex) but your ex is surely not going to want you back.

You have to get your head in order... Why is the girl so important to you? You guys were together for a month..

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Don't fuck the friend because you want your ex. Your ex dumped you, you're not getting back together. Fuck the friend because she's hot and probably knows how to take a dick

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Well the friend doesn't compare looks wise to my ex and she's kinda ditzy vs my ex was a ball buster and super smart. The sex was unreal as well. I'm talking 4-5 times a day on the weekend, and she could get me hard with just a look better than viagra ever could. She was a fuckin siren and a shark and I guess I was a guppie next to her. We had an intense relationship but yeah she dumped my ass because i did some stupid shit. Fucking the friend is meaningless to me. I can get way better girls. My ex on the other hand is definitely HB9 or above. I just didn't have my game up to par to keep her.

I guess i am applying the game methodology that is used in approach to try to make an ex jealous. So you approach a group of girls and talk to all the ones you don't want to make the hot one jealous. In this case i'm thinking if i meet the friend my ex might get both jealous and see DHV in me as I can get one of her friends. Don't know if you guys think this is the wrong approach and if i should just leave it because it won't work. I'd rather game other chicks if it won't work. this friend is not worth my time if i can't at least show some value to the shark (my ex).

So EddieFews,

Is there any angle left with the ex. She doesn't see me as alpha enough for her and despite the fact that i fucked her brains out, some of my other qualities seem to way the balance against me. I suspect no contact and just fuck other girls/work on myself is the only thing i can do now.

One thing is she sends me a text with a picture today saying hey look it's obama and he waved at me from the car. I reply back, "hope that wasn't the highlight of your day loser :p" (she and her friends call eachother loser for fun. again this is one day later, so not sure what kinds of games she is playing now.

you ex is going to respect you more and find you more attractive if you fuck her friend.

Somehow I dont think your gonna fuck her friend though.

Yeah, I think the thread can close after this.

Spot on Detox.

RR

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ok seems to be some seriously conflicting opinions here. I'm pretty sure i can fuck the friend. My ex is the hotter one and i had heavy makeout on a street corner in public on first date and fuck close on second date. the friend is a joke compared to my ex. a friend of mine went out with my ex 4-5 times and he couldn't get her to give him a kiss on the cheek for fuck sakes. am not saying i'm the shit because i suck at relationships, but if these girls have a bros before hoes friendship with each other than my ex will never get involved with me again. Either i can just go out with this chick to make the ex jealous which might not even work, or i can fuck her to make her jealous, or i can just ignore this chick and just go on with my life and go after other chicks in the meantime and if the shark comes back then fine otherwise go on with my life.