Hi.
I'm from India, currently living in a hellhole (logistics n stuff).
I was wondering if casual relationships are possible in NOT SO large cities in India where people are not so cosmopolitan,

still believe in the fairy tale-esque love (I'm sure some of them would call even HIMYM obscene) and only one partner for

life ("first and only love" kinda crap.)
I've never been in a real relationship. Its not because I couldn't attract girls but because
I'm a nitpicker. I would have an LTR with only a girl I like (and such girls are very rare here). I don't go for anybody

cuz I'm just scared of the consequences (suicide attempts etc.)
Girls here cannot and dont distinguish sex from emotion and love. (Any way you can find girls who do?)
Even proposing such a concept to most of them would be absurd.

Thus I'm looking for "the one" even though I don't want to since I'm scared what might happen in case of breakup.
What's your opinion??

(Note for Trolls:
Don't Go ranting about how every girl is same and I have no balls. You dont live here and Strict Social programming can be very influential, esp.

on girls since they take less chances and are goody two shoes.)

Anybody???..bump

Hello brother.

I've relocated from a big metropolitan city (population 11.5 million) to a small town (population 85 thousand). The small town is definitely more conservative than the big city I used to lived in.

I've studied several PUA materials that I've bought online as well as the many free ones. I've applied almost everything that I've learned. The key though is to adjust. You have to make the routines milder and fit the conservative context in your area of PUA operations.

No amount of reading (or listening to audio or viewing video lectures) can take the place of implementing what you've learned and making adjustments to find out the things that work well in your context. It's all about practice, practice and more practice. It's all about adjustments, adjustments and more adjustments.

The good thing though is that most PUA materials that you find here have scientific basis.

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I've just started, but the most important thing that I've noticed is that in conservative societies, sometimes approaching guys in a mixed set, or the ugly girls in a 3 or 4 set really helps !