I was out last night with my friend. At one point in the night we approached a two set. It was a pretty standard approach. We were high energy and self validating and we truly didnt give a fuck. Despite this the girls really wernt receptive. They were actually really fucking cold. They made small talk with us for a few minutes and then made an excuse to leave. We didnt chase and we let them leave.

This is obviously normal. There are just some sets you are not going to have chemistry with. There are some sets you are going to open when you are not congruent and you are not in state. We opened several more sets that evening and were sucessful in the majority of them.

This first set however kind of stands out in my mind. Im not sure how I could have played it differently to have further engaged these girls. Basically I am asking for any advice or previous stories on how to interact with these "colder sets" to sort of warm them up. Thanks and cheers.

-BRAD