So i just got back from the gym and honestly Im kinda heated about the situation. I been goin to this gym and I have never thought about approaching the many tons of chick that give me attention there. Im pretty well built, cut up, and have a head full of black hair and im pretty good looking (not trying to brag, just giving my stats). So many women check me out. Anyway...

this one girl that I have seen a few times literally walks by me, smiling a ton, staring at me for like 4-5 seconds. Today she posted up near me a few times doing BS workouts but I can see her from the corner of my eye. So she walks back and forth a few times and I said, f it im gonna approach this one. Shes really cute and a nice body.

So there is an elevator to get out of the place and she is behind me walking up to it but decides to take the stairs. So I decide to also. She was ahead of me and i notice before pushing open the door, she almost waits/ acts like the door is heavy and opens it when im directly behind her.

So idk if I was akward about it but i didnt think so and i said to her hey are you from around here? shes like yaa. i go well ive seen you a few times and feel like you might need a friend.. whats your name, im maria (has an accent). I tell her my name. I said so you been here for a while? her yea... it was nice meeting you. and kinda ends it right there.

like WTF? should i take it that I got my foot in the door? She seemed a little like weirded out but I am not weird at all lol. I am pissed bc she gave me so much fcking attention and seemed really disinterested. wtf do i take of this?

thanks guys lol

And you expected what exactly? For her to get on her knees, unzip your pants and stroke your cock?

Get over yourself dude. You intro'd each other, stop putting so much into it and sounding like a hurt little bitch. Next time you see her chat her up, "Hey you!" whatever...easy breezy, stop overthinking shit when you're still at the starting gate.

hmm good point bro... i think its more the fact that she seemed really disinterested and it was outside with a lot of ppl around too. Im just discouraged bc its the first time I approach a girl at the gym and it went pretty bad.

do it 20 more times with 10 different girls then report back. Too early for a soap Opera, your data set is too thin.

Supraman, you THINK you're 'the man'... it was obvious you felt fucking entitled, we read your OP.

But - the truth is - you were shut down because of HOW YOU APPROACHED. In her mind - she built you up... She'd given IOIs and you'd never acted on them (pussy move, by the way). Then when you DO approach her - what do you do? You act like every other idiot that asks her out... You became forgettable, bland and replaceable in that split-second. The whole "image" she had of you was DLV'd BY you.

I suggest actually learning how to approach women...

If you learn how to actually run game properly, this won't happen. Use this fucking abysmal failure as your catalyst to improve!

RR

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she could be nervous that is she probably seems disinterested. You broke the ice, now continue making small talk with her and built up.

"i feel like you might need a friend"
bro if you can't talk about about anything else, talk about how you admire her for adopting a healthy life style, i.e. going to the gym....

well enlighten me as to what I could have done differently? if a girl is interested, why do i need a science to be able to talk to her. f*ck this! I didnt even ask her out! I barely made any small talk. it was hi where you from im name whats yours... nice to meet you but that was it. Tell me what I did wrong

I don't think I'm the man at all dude, if she doesn't seem interested don't fuckin stare me up like woah. Back from where Im from if a girl does that, its over. Here in Boston, these chicks are extremely hard to read. Maybe the gym just isnt the right place.

The problem you're failing to grasp here is supraman, is good looking guys get stares. I stare at hot girls, doesn't mean I'll think of them automatically as relationship material. Of course small talk IS forgettable, its boring...you basically interviewed her in an elevator. What did you expect her to realistically do? Give you immense value for your looks? That would make her feel like a shallow slut (maybe unconsciously).

Learn on how to make conversation...keyword: EMOTIONS. Feel free to tell stories ( i personally never do these now until i have her on a date) and even then I'm balancing it out with extremely direct intentions.

you are too upset

this makes me think your main issue is scarcity, so, as I said before, you need to talk to more chicks as a first step.

have any of you met a girl at the gym? if so, interested in your steps. i did not interview in the elevator it was outside the gym

Dude, you can get pissy, you're missing the point.

You want the end game without learning the game.

Nobody can teach you what we've taken YEARS to learn/master in a paragraph.

You asked what to do, we told you start learning, start sarging in the field, practice, practice, practice....

And you're still hung up on this chick.

Forget it! If you think you can fuck her, fuck her. I think you should let it go for a WHILE at least, and work on YOURSELF...

You've been given advice and you didn't like it. It's that simple.

Listen, PUA isn't about being all slick and cool... We give it to each other straight! We don't get pissy about it, and we LEARN. You can continue to do as you please - just don't get mad when you ask the questions and the answers you hear aren't to your liking...

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Inside the gym...outside the gym. Does it REALLY matter where you interviewed her?

Come on man...

And yes I've went from gym (sweaty, looking fucking ugly as shit from a work out) so essentially very low value to a very dominant frame interaction in direct game and we went out for dinner and eventually SNL...it was at 1 AM...so I'm not sure if that's considered "same night"

Fact: She can do whatever the fuck she wants. How YOU react to it, is YOUR responsibility.

I don't think you're ready to learn game. You don't have the proper mindset.


Oh, and wherever the fuck you're from is a stupid argument. People here are from all over the fucking world, and the only one bitching about how women are - is you.

Man up, dude.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.