Ok, first post, but I am sick of messing up with another girl and its getting me low. need some advice from people who understand PUA please.

i had been seeing a girl very casually for a couple of months. meeting up say once a week, stopping at hers, and a couple of texts here and there in between.

she was a loose friend before i started getting with her and there was always a vibe between us. I havent fucked her, although she tried a couple of times. ( I realise now how stupid this is!) Not sure why i held off, but now regret it.


I could never really read how much she liked me, I felt that we were close ( when she was with me it was like she is in love with me, staring into my eyes not talking, licking up my nose and ears that sort of thing) but when i wasnt with her, she didnt really get in touch much. I figured she was playing it cool.


Anyways, she suddenly lost interest, last two attempts to meet up with her she hasnt replied and now I realise i miss hanging out a lot. Is there anyway I can redeem this situation?

I figure she will get in touch eventually but i dont want to look as if I will come running at her beck and call. (and i dont want to wait so long its too long for either of us to make the effort)

If she is phasing me out I Really dont want to try and meet her a third time without a repsonse.

But if she has given up on me because she thinks i am not into her, it would be a shame.

thoughts? any of that make sense? is this pure oneitis? She has always been my what if girl - hence wanting to save it.

should i walk away?

(reading that back it all sounds pretty dead and buried lol)

Cheers for reading

if the two of you have done stuff for such a time period then it sends a strong message if she doesnt respond at all...dont try a third time, there is a good reason why she isnt responding. if she gets in touch simply act as though nothing happened, set up a date, make it nice and comfortable7enjoyable..drink some alkohol with her and finally screw her..

hmm yeah, well the first time she replied a few days later, so i sent an uninterested reply back.

second time she just didnt reply. It not uncommon for her though as i see her do it to her mates all the time.

Last time i saw her we kissed goodbye and all seemed cool.

good advice though thanks.