Hey players, I need a pointer here. How do you guys disarm and difuse the alpha male of a group. Lately, when I´ve been approaching a group with a guy in it, The first thing he´ll say is ¨They´re all my girlfriends¨ and crap like that. When this happens I center my attention on the male, cause if you own the alpha male, you own the ladies as well, but I´m having trouble working around that barrier, and they might ask me to leave with this sort of ¨You´re so fucking lame¨ tone of voice, which I figure it´s a sign he´s threatened by me. (I´m actually pretty damn good looking... cough) How would you guys work around this, and make it to the gals?

just be more fun than that guy, lol. No need to make enemies. Try to make friends first, if he gives you hard time, you just go have fun, and it will all work itself out in the end.

Don't own tha male... own the PLACE! when i say owning the place, that means you should be the center of attraction. all people should observe you from the staff down to the normal guests. By doing this, you are seen as the warm alpha. And it also opens you to different sets non-verbally and without effort.

Befriend him.

"They're all my girlfriends"

you: Cool, I wanna be like mike! Teach me your secret! (then smile)

....Neutralize him, he's only with one - at most. If you can do this - you'll do well with the other ladies. Also, keep it all light, and when appropriate, neg the hottie there, ask HIM "Is she always like that?"... Many times, the "alpha male" is an act - and if given the opportunity, you'll make him your buddy (pawn) - then YOU control the set. You can also kino him (backhand slap on the shoulder) which will allow you to kino the girls there faster as well - you're part of the group!

Only try to AMOG if it's a last resort - and then - you'd better be able to back it up if need be...


RR

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I definitely support the notion of being the 'warm' alpha male. The kind of person people want to get to know. When having an interaction with the 'aggressive' alpha male, think of keeping 'your enemies closer', if he undermines you, enjoy it as a sign of anger and insecurity. I believe in the philosophy that the best way to win an argument is to always be wrong, and be blissfully content with your supposed ignorance. This creates a moral dilemma for the aggressive alpha male which means he's angry for no reason, with nowhere to place that anger, as you're happily advocating the devil. Women will see his anger, and take him as the 'insecure jerk', making you the 'warm newly alpha male'. Try it.